Is dating like a full time job apart from u dont get paid?

[catarecute]

sims like how it feels sometimes

[Jbear27]

If you’re with a high maintenance partner then yes. If you’re with someone you genuinely click with then it’s usually a lot more fluid and fun. You still have to put in the work and effort and at times make sacrifices and compromises but you enjoy it and look forward to it. If you find yourself becoming exhausted with the relationship as if it’s too much work then you’re probably not getting a reciprocation of effort from your significant other and at that point maybe ask yourself if the relationship is working for you or you’re working for it.

[NathanDavis]

what about your actual job... does it sometimes feel like a relationship or like you're dating?

[catarecute]

lol i am not a prostitute. dating just feels robotic to me like in south park where everyone uses chat gpt to date.

[NathanDavis]

have you ever had a long-term relationship?

I've dated like three times in my life but no more than that... but I've been in relationships for almost 15 years total

[catarecute]

i did when iwas younger i had two long term boyfriends we were together for over 2 years. apart them two i never realy dated cuz the men i met were trash i also dated two guys whe were nice for a couple of moths. but this guy calleds phil i think was nice but he wasn't ambitious and he wanted to stay poor forever and was spending time with trashy people. this other guy called josh dumbed me to focus on his degree then called me back after he graduated but i didn't take him back. my longest realtioship i ditched him cuz he spent to much time playing video games and neglected me. apart from them i felt in love with some soiopath who stalked me and tried to make my life hell but i am getting over him. i am trying to date again but its not easy.

[NathanDavis]

that sounds a bit dreadful... and unlucky

but chances are that you might now find someone or something different, more mature... an actual grown up

[catarecute]

and i dated some rich nutcase who pissed me off with his posh boys behaviour. i have nothing against poshness but i dont like snobs

[NavyOU37]

I mean, if you are the woman you are getting paid. Haha!

[catarecute]

no most men are poor and rich men dont waist money here in london. i dont know what its like in america but in Europe the rich are tight.

[NavyOU37]

This is where you women mess up horribly. You all are searching for men who are rich and a Chad. Women live under this delusion that they will only accept men who are over 6 foot and make 6 figures. Then women want to complain when these same men do not commit. I think the problem is women have so many options that it stops an entire generation of missing out on happiness.

[Billlewis]

Not If you've got yourself an obedient pay pig who is never allowed to have intercourse with you;)

[LunarEclipse433]

Yeah and you can’t use Zip Recruiter to check past references

[catarecute]

dating online is like recruiting on indeed.

[Likes2drive]

Sometimes it seems like it but right now I don’t have that second job atm

[007kingifrit]

being single is more work than being in a relationship

[msc545]

Dating, at least for men, is like playing Russian Roulette with a loaded pistol.

[Anonymous]

It's give n take business..
I buy her lunch. Expensive gifts. In return she welcome me with spreading her legs.

[catarecute]

lol hahahahaha

[Opinion Owner]

Its true lol
You don't agree? 😘

[catarecute]

its not realy love but as long as you are both happy.

[exitseven]

no, it is not a job, it's an adventure.

[RedInnocent68]

You get paid in other ways 😉