Do you guys love your girls more after not seeing them for long?

[Anonymous]

I feel like he likes me more when we spend time apart, but for some reason I get a little sad. I feel like guys are different and girls need more attention.

[Oliverlogan263]

Eh sometimes I guess. Like if you haven't seen your girl in a while yeah you can really miss her. But it doesn't necessarily mean we like her more after, just that distance makes the heart grow fonder and all that.

Guys definitely need their space sometimes too though. We can get burnt out if we're around the same person all the time without a break. Doesn't mean we like them less, just gotta recharge our social batteries you know?

I think it's normal for girls to want more attention sometimes too. We're different. But your guy still likes you for sure, he's probably just one of those dudes that needs his bro time.

Maybe you could plan things to look forward to when you do spend time together? Like special dates or activities you both enjoy. That way the separation doesn't feel so "meh" and you get quality time bonding when you are seeing each other.

Overall don't stress, relationships go through phases. As long as you both still make time for each other and he's good to you, it's all good!

[Asker]

Okay this makes a lot of sense. I will not worry thank you for answering.

[Oliverlogan263]

You’re welcome

[Anonymous]

Of course girls need more attention. Men can go a long time w out it. Some exceptions but it’s usually women. As for loving her more or less when I’m away, it’s the same. I love her the same no matter what.

[exitseven]

Absence doth make the heart grow fonder.

[Asker]

Haha so true.

[jahaims]

Nope