How do you find a man who wants to spoil and provide for you?

[Anonymous]

How do you find men who want to give you a soft easy lush life? He doesn't have to be wealthy but a man who wants to spend on you, and provide for you.

[kylee2437]

He more than likely has to be wealthy. The lush life will never come from the average income guy.

[Tim2nice]

They’re out there. They’re called sugar daddies but you need some luck and good hunting skills to get one. Good luck finding yours!

[slatyb]

Why would a man want to do that? What are you offering in return?

[Asker]

Cooking, cleaning, taking care of children, meals, taking care of taxes, grocery shopping. A stay at home mother is a job that actually benefits a man. Studies have shown modern households that still follow this dynamic properly are more content and long lasting. I can't believe there are no traditional men left knowing this used to be a societal norm.

[slatyb]

There are some. You may not like them. If this is your desire, choose very carefully as you will have limited resources if the marriage fails.

[TheSpaceGnome]

What could you possibly give him in return that he's not also giving you?

[Asker]

Form the beginning of time men have been men at to provide while women nurture and raise children. I would take care of house work, taxes, manage funds, raise the children, cook, etc. I would be his peace. If your not traditional that's fine, but there are men who prefer a tradition lifestyle.

[Asker]

Sorry for any spelling mistakes English isn't my first language

[TheSpaceGnome]

1. There was no begining to time, the universe existed for eternity.

2. The begining of earth's history didn't have humans.

3. Humans have had many cultural variances, but we started out with some guys humping women and then leaving them, while other guys had harems and killed rival males, so the start of human history is NOT a useful reference for healthy relationships (and money, marriage, or monogamy certainly didn't exist as the norm then).

4. I don't wan't any children. I do want lots of pets though, but if I did want children, it takes 2 people to raise them, not one.

5. I work from home, and I clean up after myself and my pets, also everything at home is organized how I like it, So I'd prefer a wife just cleaned up after herself and any of her pets, and did half the chores, while I do the same.

6. I'm not letting anyone manage MY funds or do my taxes. That would be insane! 😂 You can manage your own funds and taxes.

See, the thing is, if you can't offer something equally valuable in return, no self respecting guy would ever want to let you mooch off him. He would be giving you something you aren't giving him, and he gets nothing from you that he isn't giving you? Thats not very fair now is it?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Cleaning up after yourself and being a wife and mother are generally bottom of the barrel expectations, a woman who pays half the bills is going to be doing those things too, so we'd pick one of those women, not a gold digger.

[Asker]

Being a home maker is not being a gold digger? Of my husband is working and Im at home taking care completely of a home and children while can cooking so he comes home with no chores and a warm meal that is a job. It's insane to think stay at home wives are useless moochers. And crazu to think there aren't many stay at home wives meaning clearly its not some foreign concept, it's used to be the norm at least in the West and still is the norm in many countries

[TheSpaceGnome]

No, whats insane is thinking a guy isn't cooking, cleaning or raising his kids too.

It's not going to be "completely". The only "completely" thing is his income, so you'd need to offer something of equal value.

When a guy has enough money to pay for everything he wants, you, his kids, etc, then he has the finances to travel to go places and be picky and find the perfect woman for him. He's not going to settle on a mooch. He's going to find a rich girl who has the same interests and hobbies and isn't a risk to his finances or property if divorce happens.

[Asker]

I make over 120k I have interests and hobbies. I give to my community and care for those around me. Some men are generous and want a stay at home wife. I want to be a stay at home wife and take care of my family. Mutually agreeing to have a partner stay at home is not mooching its compromise.

[Asker]

And as a stay at home wife my husband would not be cleaning or cooking that is quite literally the job. Of course he'd still be a father figure but during the day pick them up from school packing lunches etc if take care of the kids. A million are doesn't have time for those things realistically

[Asker]

During the day I’d**

[TheSpaceGnome]

If you make 120k you don't need a provider, pay your fair share or end up alone. 😂

100% a gold digger at this point.

[Billlewis]

It pays to advertise ❤️

[Brown_345]

I want rich boyfriend