Is it okay to ask out a woman who's still in high school?

[Anonymous]

She's still in high school but turned 18 and I'm 27, we both like each other.

[IslaTheWitch]

I'm biased because of my own experience.

What do you want from this relationship? Turning 18 is just a law thing. She is still literally a kid. No experiences, no knowledge.

Do you hit on her only to have sex?

And if no, how do you imagine your conversations with her? It's 9 years of difference. In this age it's huge difference.

[4ngelic]

18 especially still in high school 18 is weird...

at your age you shouldn't go for an 18 yo GIRL (not woman), you're pushing 30. leave her to the high school and college boys. its fine to date and want younger girls but at your age wait until her age starts with a 2

[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[Avicenna]

Although she's of legal age, if she is still in high school, you should not date her.

[SixFootSexy]

Women upset about guys being attracted to youth and beauty be like:

[PetLover24]

Hmmm so what are you going to contribute to her life? You likely don't have a job, you likely have personality issues, and other things.

Otherwise you know... you'd go for actual women not barely legal girls. There is after all only 2 type of men that go for such youths. Pedos & abusers looking for someone who doesn't have an easy means to leave / escape.

[Asker]

So she can get away for going for me at work? The double standard bullshit.

[HelpfulWoman]

ah yes, show us the low key pedo vibes and wave those red flags

[Asker]

For an 18 year old?

[HelpfulWoman]

barely legal so yeahhhhhhh

[Tharithi]

Damn 😂

[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[HelpfulWoman]

@PetLover24 exacttttlyyyyy!
like there's a reason they're going for naïve idiots with no life experience instead of women of a similar age...

[petitedollbabee]

Oh great, a guy reaching 30 who’s an ephebophile. Leave her alone. Find someone who’s already an adult.

[Asker]

She is an adult, you fucking idiot.

[petitedollbabee]

Barely legal. I wouldn’t call that an adult. She’s still in highschool. She may be an “adult” in the eyes of the law, but emotionally she’s still a teen. Gross.

[Asker]

Okay, I don't give a shit.

[petitedollbabee]

Clearly you do, otherwise you wouldn’t have asked the question 😂 but alright, you do you!

[Asker]

I was asking about legality, I don't give a damn otherwise.

[Dinklex3]

“She’s an adult”. She’s literally in high school.

[Asker]

@Dinklex3 18 is an adult, please educate yourself.

[Dinklex3]

Yet you’re trying to date a teenager who hasn’t even finished her high school education 🤔
You asked the question because you know it’s wrong.

[Asker]

@Dinklex3 I asked for legality reasons, I don't care about "morally".

[Dinklex3]

You clearly already knew.

[Asker]

@Dinklex3 Nope.

[Anonymous]

using the words "woman in high school" makes absolutely no sense lmao. sure, she's 18, but she is not a woman. because women do not go to high school. girls go to high school...

honestly this is just gross. you're almost 30 dude... you can't find a woman your age? grooming a young adult... not even legal to drink, probably only been driving for 2 years, MAX, if she even has her own car, hasn't even graduated high school yet... christ! do you even hear yourself?

[Asker]

What's drinking and driving gotta do with it? 18 is an adult in the eyes of the government. You wouldn't want me dating a 20 year old still in high school either?

[Opinion Owner]

just because the law says it's okay still does not make it right for a man who is almost 30 to date a teenager (18 is still a teenager, eighTEEN).

[Asker]

If the law says it's okay, it's okay.

[Opinion Owner]

lol groomer.

[Opinion Owner]

your morals are fucked.

[AaronKrieger]

Come on man, what are you doing? If you're not trolling, then you need to not be desperate and hold some self-respect.

This doesn't make you a pedophile or borderlining one like others said, but there is a big maturity difference between you two and she hasn't experienced enough to make up for that difference.

[bededazzle]

sounds like you want to and it’s legal. are you just curious if people will judge you? some might, but let your own conscience be your guide.

[bededazzle]

if you are looking for judgment, you will find it here. you’re not a pedophile if it’s legal. the law has to draw the line somewhere. if your interest is primarily sexual, plenty of people will look down on it, as you can see. if it is emotional, you may be a bit immature for your age, but if this is the case, it is what it is. it’s nothing to be ashamed of.

[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[bededazzle]

@PetLover24 why would that person ask for approval?

[PetLover24]

@bededazzle - where do you get that impression when he's said elsewhere on this post he doesn't care for morality, etc.

[bededazzle]

@PetLover24 i don’t see that. i see people attacking him and him getting emotional

[PetLover24]

@bededazzle - maybe you should learn how to read then instead of defending someone with few to no morals.

[bededazzle]

@PetLover24 that’s up to him

[PetLover24]

@bededazzle this is his exact words "I don't care about "morally"." Come back when you've a valid protest & not just defending someone with few to no morals. Because it also says you've few to no morals.

[bededazzle]

@PetLover24 i don’t try to impose my morality on others. it’s legal so he can do what he wants. maybe the woman doesn’t care either. it’s not my cup of tea but i don’t judge him.

[PetLover24]

@bededazzle - It's not imposing my morality. It's societies. Do try to learn.

[bededazzle]

@PetLover24 i said my morality. i never mentioned yours because i don’t judge you either

[Chevy1_kb]

You are nine years older than her but still over 18 little bit of a age gap but not to much so it should be ok it would be different if you where 30 something and she was 18 that's to much of a age gap

[Anonymous]

What do you think this is "pineapple express" and you're Seth Rogan? That's a comedy man! Not real life. What would you have in common with a high school girl? Legally it's OK. That doesn't mean it's not a little weird. And I question the longevity of it. Because I question what you'll actually have in common. I wouldn't do it. But you do you man.

[Worst]

I mean legally, yes. Morally? It's not great; you're better off dating someone closer to your age for a multitude of reasons which should be obvious to you...

[Asker]

I don't care about "morally".

[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[Worst]

@PetLover24 you're a smart one eh

[PetLover24]

@worst - no just statistics. I have about 32 family members who work in city, state & national police including Texas Troopers & FBI. My father worked with the FBI & hunted down rapists & murderers for about 28 years including pedos and women abusers.

[Worst]

@PetLover24 great lol dont do a background check on me

[Apple1996]

It's borderline pedo to be attracted to a 18 year old. Find a woman your own age and leave the high-school kids alone

[GOLDFISH_smile]

Did u know her at all b4 she turned 18? Or did you just meet her just now and she's already 18?

[Sour-rose]

No, that's dumb. that will get her arrested and you in therapy. :)

[Fireguy17]

Based on your age differences I would say no.
Just the maturity level alone is pretty far apart.

[exitseven]

It is sort of weird but you are both legally adults,

[MemeSupreme]

gross

[Asker]

Only a few years younger than you.

[MemeSupreme]

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[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[Asker]

Overly dramatic

[Anonymous]

What do intend to talk about, or do you primarily want to fuck her?

[Asker]

Whatever she wants, our lives, goals, hobbies

[Opinion Owner]

Dude, she's in high school. You're a grown man. Leave her alone.

[Asker]

She's also grown.

[Tharithi]

Why u like her , what are your intentions

[Opinion Owner]

She's 18. It's possible that she's years ahead in maturity, putting her around 20-21, which could match up with your mental maturity, which seems to be around 21-22.

[Tharithi]

Damn u increased her age by 4 years what’s wrong with u. Why u are interested In her

[Asker]

@Tharithi I think she's nice and fun.

[Tharithi]

Huh? How did u even meet her. More importantly what conversations have u had

[Asker]

@Tharithi I met her at work, she's part time.

[Tharithi]

Lol. What are your intentions hook up. Disgusting. U both are at different points in life. Understanding cannot exist

[Asker]

@Tharithi But if the roles were reversed, it would be fine, right? Double standards.

[Tharithi]

Says who? What’s wrong with u

[4ngelic]

if the roles were reversed it would be just as bad. most people would think so. cougars are gross too

[Asker]

@4ngelic I think both of y'all are making a big deal about nothing, and I condone cougars.

[PetLover24]

Most men who aim for these barely legal girls either have pedo tendacies or are abusers looking for someone who can't easily escape (I mean at 18 average person typically doesn't even have a good job forcing dependance on others).

[Opinion Owner]

Of course you do, and that's fine, but you won't admit that 99% of the time cougars are after nothing but sex, attention and to validate they're still physically attractive by getting it.

[Anon_desi]

Yeah she's not a minor

[Heolurt]

Sounds like a grooming situation.

[Asker]

18 is not a child.

[Heolurt]

No but how long have you both known each other? An the fact you knew she was in high school is still creepy

[Radiate143]

Sure.

[Joker_]

no lol

[In_Trance]

lame

[Anonymous]

Enjoy prison food

[Anonymous]

Only if she is 18.