Tam a 30 year old guy and I've recently met this woman who seems really awesome! I recently found out that she has her belly button pierced and it is a total turn on for me. I know this is dumb, but I have never dated a woman with a belly button ring and it has literally been a turn on for me and the hottest thing ever since I was like 12-13 %) Would it be dumb of me to want to date her because of this?
Yo man, I totally get what you're saying. A hot girl with her belly button pierced? Doesn't get much better than that haha.
At the same time, looks ain't everything. You don't want your main reason for dating this chick to be some shallow physical thing. That kinda thing fades, you know?
From what you said, it also sounds like you really click with her personality-wise. That's way more important for a long-term connection.
So I say go for it dude! See where things go beyond just her rockin' piercing. Keep your head on straight and don't just stare at her stomach all the time, haha.
As long as you appreciate HER for who she is inside and out, it's all good. Who knows, maybe that belly button ring will lead to other freaky fun in the bedroom later on ;) Either way, don't miss out on a potential great girl over some silly insecurity. You got this bro!
Well, you thought she was "really awesome" before you knew about it, right? So logically, you wouldn't be dating her JUST because of it? Because while doing so ONLY because a silly little thing like a piercing would kind of stupid, but refusing to date her because of something about her that attracted you would be much stupider.
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Is that the only reason? There must be something else. If she were otherwise unattractive you wouldn't be interested. Ask her out and see where it goes.
It's very shallow
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