Guy takes pictures of stuff on his lap?

[Anonymous]

A guy text me stuff he wants to show me but he sit it on his lap? It was his other phone and also notes. Why on his lap and not table?

[Oliverlogan263]

Uh, that's kinda weird. Taking pics of stuff on his lap instead of just holding it normally or putting it on a table is a red flag.

A few possibilities why he might be doing that:

- He was tryna be sneaky and get away with sending shirtless/crotch shots disguised as the objects. That's just playing games and disrespectful.

- He gets off on the idea of you seeing things on his lap indirectly if you know what I mean. Also not cool to make someone uncomfortable like that.

- Could be he's super insecure and doing weird posed shots to try and get your attention/compliments in a roundabout way.

None of those explanations are good, trust me. I'd call him out on that creepy lap pic behavior - tell him to just hold stuff normally from now on or you don't wanna see. Don't let dudes play games or cross boundaries like that. You can do better sis! If he keeps being weird, might be time to block him for real.