Why are most women so horrible?

[Anonymous]

I am a women myself and whenever i'm on a date, women will try to treate me badly or sit near me indicating they aren't threatened by me to avoid sitting near good looking girls. This makes me look bad to my date.

[lightbulb27]

not all girls, but many are vindictive and want to hurt others. It has to grow or be trained out of them. Where are they getting the training these days? I see it in church and home but takes a lot of work. its because they are competing... in essence, they have low self worth.

boys are rotten too...

[BoopBoopBeep]

You expect women to avoid sitting by you because they need to indicate to your boyfriend that you are the most attractive there? FML that's a level of narcissistic delusion that I've never encountered.

If they didn't sit by you you'd complain they are intimidated by you and bitchy.

It's a wonder you can even get a date.

Get help.

[Asker]

Wow makes me laugh people just throw around the word narcissistic, everybody a narcissist nowadays I see

[Asker]

No I wouldn’t be complaining wtf u talking bout buddy

[BoopBoopBeep]

No, only people who think "women will... sit near me indicating they aren't threatened by me to avoid sitting near good looking girls."

Maybe they just did NOT think you were a nutjob and thought you DID seem friendly. Or maybe that was the only seat. Most people actually do NOT pick a seat because of some subversive attempt to make commentary on the inferiority of their neighbor. That actually IS the definition of narcissism, thinking the world revolves around you and that others' choices are somehow a commentary ON you. The reality is you aren't that relevant.

[Asker]

no it was an empty restaurant and a bunch of other tables available

[Asker]

man you didn't have to stoop that low and say "reality is you aren't that relevant". Does that make your miserable self more happy? if it does carry on :D

[Asker]

old ass geezer

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm far from miserable, child. My life is amazing. You aren't relevant. Only a narcissist would take offense to that. Emotionally mature individuals are aware that they aren't relevant to 90% of the people they interact with in the course of a day. The grocer doesn't go home and worry about your well being. Nor most of your colleagues. Google "main character syndrome".

[Asker]

Keep telling yourself that

[BoopBoopBeep]

Yes, I will, thanks. I reflect on how amazing my life is at least once a day. Incidentally, notice how everyone else on here is echoing a similar sentiment (though admittedly less blunt than I did). Maybe there's something to that. Probably not, though, huh? Just all of us being miserable. You have an amazing day. I know I will.

[Asker]

You obviously have nothing to do, typing paragraphs. Stop replying

[Asker]

You win okay go and live your amazing life boy

[BoopBoopBeep]

I have something to do. This. At some point today I may make bread. I called in "fuk it" at work today, so yeah, not much else to do. YOU go live an amazing life too!

[Asker]

Yes as I am beautiful I have a secured spot in living an amazing life. Praise to god 🙏

[Asker]

Now stop talking make your bread

[BoopBoopBeep]

My bread is tasty. You are welcome to some. I have it in abundance.

[Asker]

Lol share your bread sir

[BoopBoopBeep]

I will! AND I will provide butter or jam as appropriate. We get crunk here like that.

[Chandelier8]

You can either view women as friends or competition. If you aren't insecure, you'll view other women are friends. Confident women don't notice what other women look like, they focus on their date.

[Chandelier8]

as* friends. Dammit I hate my typos.

[Asker]

Except his actions changed towards me when the date was done that was obvious. No it wasn’t caused by me, he was pretty consistent with me before

[Chandelier8]

The fact remains you're insecure and hostile towards other women. Sad.

[Asker]

One day you will be too dont worry sis :D

[Asker]

as if you aren't insecure lol

[Chandelier8]

No, one day I won't be. I've grown up.

[Asker]

Lmao alright

[Asker]

You win now stop replying pls

[Chandelier8]

It's not about winning, that's what I mean.

[IslaTheWitch]

Never had such situation... all met women like waitresses, or other guests in places where we ate, all always were nice or neutral. The same in any other location like cinema...

[Billlewis]

I don't think they're horrible; I think they do what's needed for their pleasure, comfort, satisfaction and fulfillment.

[Asker]

yeah they do it makes me do it infront off my date

[Asker]

can you tell me why they are such bitches

[HelpfulWoman]

XD this is simply you projecting.

[NathanDavis]

definitely not in my experience...