Why are most women so bad nowadays?

[Anonymous]

NOT all women are but I'd say most are. Women cheat more than men. Some of you may disagree but this is pretty much true. If your a guy you will notice how many women cheat on their boyfriends. Why? Why can't they just break up or stay with him?

Women are sluts at parties, clubs and bars. It's very common to see girls giving head or having sex with guys they just met that night, in the bathrooms of clubs and bars. Most girls have gone home and slept with a guy they met that night at least 5-10 times.

But girls being sluts is ok but they CAN'T expect to land a nice guy. So many girls are complaining on social media about how bad guys are and how guys only want sex, and then these girls go to clubs and let men use them for sex in the bathroom? What the hell? Do girls not realise that one night stands only really benefit men? That guys just use them? And the sad thing is that modern women have such little respect for their own bodies. This is why guys don't want to date women anymore.

[Grimfangs]

Alright. Time to disillusion you. The fact that women don't want sex just as much as men, or even more than us is a societal delusion. They want sex and they want a lot of it. They want an emotional connection as well, but they will take sex whenever they get it. Sex does not only benefit men. It benefits all the participants of both sexes.
Another thing being, the modern world is moving more towards casual sex and physical pleasure rather than emotional ones. That's why you can see a lot of people hooking up, girls and guys alike. When you find someone at the bar who's charming enough, that's enough for you to enjoy the night with that person and forget about then the next. That's because it never has any obligations and attachments tied to it. Everyone can enjoy and be free at the same time.
As for why they cheat and don't break up with their boyfriends is that they find something lacking in their relationship, and instead of talking about it, they just tend to cheat and get whatever they find lacking from other sources instead. At the same time, they don't want to lose their boyfriend, or put him through much sadness.
Relationships is just not the thing of the generation. There is simply far too much openness and availability involved for a person to stick to someone when they can find much better just lurking around everywhere around them. After all, why have the one when you can have them all?

[Najie_TooSweet]

yea are very right about everything u said... but coming from a girl that used to have meaningless sex... it gets boring... its not satisfying (well to me its not) and kinda dangerous because with all these stds and diseases out... it best to stick to one and if things start getting bad or start lacking to express yourself and see if u can make it work or leave

[Grimfangs]

And that's exactly the experience which most people these days are afraid of having. So they just continue having just sex even if they find it getting bland or boring. Eventually, they must come to terms with what actually means something, but usually they don't. And when they do, they tend regret most of what they used to do.
This generation greatly lacks the tolerance and willpower to make the wrong right. I'd personally blame availability and ease of access for that.

[Asker]

So you condone cheating? You think it's ok to lie and have sex with other people behind their bf/gf's back? You think it's ok because "why not have them all". Is your brain working ok? And you do realise people NEED emotional connection. That's why people fall in love. There will never be a day where people don't fall in love and eveyone jut fucks everyone. Maybe that's what you want because no good girl will go near you.

[Grimfangs]

Now, now. No need to be so sensitive about it.
I'm not condoning any of that. In fact, my personal opinions more in line with yours.
What I'm telling you is the harsh truth of the matter and giving you an insight into what the girls who do this actually want to have. I'm talking from their perspective. Not telling you my opinion.
So, relax and read again with that in mind, and try to come to terms with it.

[Sluthater]

You are preaching to the choir. Who wants to invest time and energy to a woman who throws out pussy? I REFUSE to date a woman who is promiscuous or can't handle money. If they are divorced and she initiated it, it better be for a good reason. Took me forever but at age 31 I found a woman whose idea of a good time was sitting home and watching a movie with me. Hated going to clubs. Dressed conservatively. The only men she had ever slept with were all in long term relationships. With that, you could count on one hand how many men she had been with and have fingers left over. She was 22 and had managed to save up $8,000 while working at a grocery store and going to school full time. She had rules. Caught her last boyfriend cheating and that was it. No second chance. Threw away the flowers and cards he sent her. Wouldn't take his calls. We have been together 19 years and I consider myself very lucky. Good luck navigating the dating world today. Hell, if I were your age and wanted to get married and start a family I would go to China for a year or so to find a wife. Who wants to marry a sperm receptacle?

[RJGraveyTrain]

I don't know where you live but I have yet to see girls giving dudes head at parties or bars - I mean, how'd you know without standing there and watching it happen?

There are more people in general who cheat in relationships, but I wouldn't say it weighs in favor or females. Arguably more studies suggest otherwise, but I won't say it's one or the other.

In my experience there are plenty "normal" girls who aren't like that, I've only known a handful who were classified as "slutty" and all of them admittedly had self esteem issues. Also, I'd argue that one night stands aren't just for men; there are women out there who simply enjoy casual, no strings attached sex. I'm not one of them, but you get what I mean.

The problem is that it's no longer as taboo for a woman to remain "pure" in the face of a sea of adulterous dudes; a lot of girls find it hypocritical for a guy to be okay to lay multiple women, and for them to be judged to do the same, so few people take the concept as seriously anymore. People are simply more sexually liberal nowadays and there are guys out there who care less about the number of sexual partners a girl has.

[Spongebob1235]

it is the same with both sexes. if you just sign up to a dating website as a woman you will see that the majority are only after fun.
even the ones who claim they want a relationship, after a few messages back and forth they clearly aren't interested in a relationship.

the same goes for some women. it seems its not as common for commitment now as it once was.
i refuse to sleep around

[Najie_TooSweet]

because now in this era of generation if a man can do it so can a women... and thats what is causing the problem women trying to be equal to man when they can't really... something is just meant to be left as it is and not changed

[sarath1997]

I understand bro , and I laugh when ladies say they need a good guy , ( I am one and I think I stopped looking for ladies a long time ago , although I have a girlfriend , we aren't officially broken up but we don't talk anymore , like we used to do 🎶🎵😄, and I feel like no one deserves me cause most of them had sex already or is in love with a bad guy. i have a sister although she is single cause in my society it isn't appreciated to have boyfriend... so I can definitely live with being myself and I don't care a shit about girls who sell their body for money or pleasure , and I hope I never come across one... cause they can be pretty intimidating and I don't want to fall for sluts...

[Kylesar]

Why is it that women are the victims here?
Sex is mutually beneficial and mutually pleasurable

Women have free will to sleep with who they want. Men have that same free will. Neither have freedom from consequence. That's equality

What if the woman is using the man. If both just want to get laid, they BOTH USED EACH OTHER

Women and men have freedom to do whatever they want with their bodies. Good or bad person, they have no right to a good man nor do men have a right to a good woman. Neither of them "deserve" someone else to spend their life with. That's entitlement

Most people want to make choices without consequence. Both genders will complain about consequence. Both genders will get over it

[Belindachesebro]

Because women are trying to get back at men for all the years that they cheated on us which is really pathetic. Women always think they can do what men can do there in competition with men. When both are promiscuous it’s bad but it’s extra bad when a woman does it. Women used to be virtuous. But the truth is no man ever wanted me because I never put out I was never slutty I was always waiting for a man to treat me like a princess. And all I got accused of being a lesbian when I was just waiting for the right man

[DizzyAster]

First, that's an white American female culture problem.
Second, you are 18-24, so girls in your age range are in stupid mode.
They usually wise up by mid to late 20s - early 30s (some never do)

Also, stop.
I mean it sounds like you are trying to defend women's honor or some shit.
If you really honor them, let them defend themselves.

[Asker]

Not just the whites. Blacks, Hispanics are just as bad if not worse.

[DizzyAster]

Like I said, culture.
That's means people who follow the culture started by white American, but is independent of race.
Like I know people in black culture who are white, Asian, hispanic.

[Asker]

I get you

[OlderGuy965]

I'm a bit older, but I see marriages where the one half won't fuck the other half. So the half being deprived, cheats. Good chance the reason he or she deprived the other one is because he or she has been cheating also. I see ads on Craigslist all the time saying "married, no sex in 6 years, come fuck me already".

[slatyb]

"Women cheat more than men". Not only not true but mathematically impossible. Women cheat exactly as much as men, because there are equal numbers of men and women. The only thing that is bad is your attitude.

[Listening5]

I know what u mean, its not just about sex tho. Its people just having casual sex and hooking up.
And yea u say girls, its guys too but its from ur point of view.

[Anonymous]

It's because of that damned freedom of sexual interactions.

[Asker]

I know your sarcastic but in my opinion it would benefit everyone if girls stop being such sluts.

[Opinion Owner]

I'm not being sarcastic lol... in certain countries people are free to fuck each other because it's normal, which leads to people being slutty and shit. I guess girls wanna taste different kinds of cocks, not me though.

[Grimfangs]

Taste different kinds of cocks. 😂
That cracked me up.

[sarath1997]

just to say , in my country it is banned to do sex with anyone other then your wife.

[Grimfangs]

@sarath1997 Where do you live?

[sarath1997]

india

[Grimfangs]

@Sarath1997 No its not banned. It's just looked down upon.

[sarath1997]

are you sure cause people got arrested in my state for French kissing in public. I am from Kerala ( God's own country )😅😎

[Grimfangs]

There are laws against PDAs or Public Displays of Affection. It's not illegal to have sex out of wedlock. Plus, most of the times, the police are just moral policing.

[sarath1997]

I hope I have to agree there...

[dwiller943]

Because we HAVE to AVOID attracting scumbags.

[Whaaaaa]

I hope to reach the same level of petty as you

[CT_CD]

Dis is true