What is the problem with women these days?

[Anonymous]

Last couple of relationships I recently got into. The woman seem they want more affection and love. But one shown they're not interested

[VictorMachiavelli]

Women usually aren't aware of the things that actually attract them, that's why there's often a difference between what they say they want vs what they actually want.

When it comes to women, or anybody for that matter, always take more notice of their actions than their words. But especially women, because they bullshit themselves and each other constantly.

They don't do this maliciously, at least not most of the time. It's just the way chick logic works. They feel things and they don't know why, and then they try to figure it out but the answer they come up with is wrong.

Very often women will fall for a guy, but then try to change him once they get into a relationship. They genuinely think they want him to act a certain way. What they don't realise is that if he goes along with it and he does change, he's not the same guy she fell for anymore. If she was actually attracted to a guy who was the way she now thinks she wants him, she would have gotten with someone like that instead.

For the women you were with, part of what attracted them was probably that you weren't the typical nice guy, who tends to be quite mushy. It's the fact that you probably played it more cool that attracted them in the first place. Once you started being mushy you lost that, you became the nice guy and they got the ick.

Just bear this in mind the next time a woman tries to change you in any way. It's better to have an attitude of "this is me, this is the way I am, take it or leave it".

[Billlewis]

There is no problem with women; it's just become more challenging to engage in an intimate sexual relationship with a woman today than it has been previously.