Single girls, would you date a boy that is shorter than you but has a very beatiful face?

[NamelessUser007]

[katiesmuff]

I'm not single nor am I a tall girl at only a mier 5'5", but I can say that looks were 2nd behind personality and humor. Height however most guys were either my height or taller. Tallest guy and I remember it well was 6' 7" and was hot as hell on the basketball court.

Remember it's not a persons looks or height that is going to keep that smile on your face or the piece of mind because he is so much fun to be with.

[Anonymous]

I’m not single but if I was probably not. The only men that are shorter than me are typically dwarves and it is unlikely that an adult would be shorter than I am in general anyways. My height and above would be fine tho.

[JHAYES317]

An actual dwarf is like 4’6”…there are plenty of 4’8” - 4’11” guys who look proportionate…

[Opinion Owner]

@JHAYES317 it is very rare that I encounter an adult that is shorter than me with normal proportions (or even one that doesn’t to be fair) and I only know one guy my height so really is a non issue regardless lol. I’d have to go actively searching

[Anonymous]

The biggest problem short guys like you have, is your refusal to accept that your height is nowhere near as important as you think it is.

[strateguy632]

if i were a lady i would date him for his sweet face despite shorter.

[PetLover24]

No because I didn't give a rat's ass about looks.

More often than not "beautiful" people are ugly - shallow, petty, insecure, etc. - on the inside anyway.

[JHAYES317]

And yet you aren’t shallow for needing them to be taller than you?

[Anonymous]

I personally wouldn’t. I think it’s the only shallow preference I have. I can’t stand short guys - they look like elves and usually have an inferiority complex as a result (they remind me of Chihuahuas). Always aggressive with something to prove because they’re tiny.

[JHAYES317]

And you wonder why…

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't care about face. Being shorter than me is a feat, so I would like to meet him at least :P

Dating depends not on a face or height, but on personality...

[MemeSupreme]

doesn't need a very beautiful face lmao idc if he's shorter unless he's A LOT shorter than me like where it feels weird

[rachel776]

it would be hard to find someone shorter than me 🤷‍♀️

[ZiaCowel2000]

I don’t care much about height. So it wouldn’t be the deal breaker it’s the personality. I find it rare in my social settings for any male to be shorter than me.

[DizzyDesii]

Back in high school yes. Now i would prefer he be a tad taller. 5’7+

[HawkPerception]

Good to know I pass for Ms dream girl

[DizzyDesii]

@HawkPerception haha *blushing*

[JHAYES317]

That’s not a preference…that’s a dealbreaker

[DizzyDesii]

@JHAYES317 prefer means preference. Sorry if you are not 5’7+

[JHAYES317]

I’m 5’7” actually but if you wouldn’t date a guy under 5’7” regardless of anything…that’s not a preference that’s a standard. A preference would be like “I’d rather date a guy over 6 ft, but if a cute guy came along who was 5’4” I’d give him a chance”

[DizzyDesii]

@JHAYES317 my main preference is that the guy be 5’7-6’2 but i have dated 5’6 and 6’3/4/5. So like i said, preference

[JHAYES317]

But would you again date someone who was 5’6”?

[HawkPerception]

@JHAYES317 Brother, I think it's best to just accept that everyone has their preferences. If a girl prefers her guy to be above 6ft or even that he's white or Latino, you need to accept that. It's her preference just as much as it's a man's preference to not date an obese girl or a girl that's taller or more muscular than him.

Life is unfair. Some people are born ugly and some are born beautiful. But having preferences does not make you shallow. It's actually a biological predisposition for woman to seek tall men with good statures as those are considered good genetics to pass on to kids as well as seen as more protective and dominant. And it's also the same for men that seek women with wide hips and "the hourglass figure." Because it's related to healthy birth.

It is a little annoying when girls put it on dating profiles that they only date 6 feet and up. If roles were reversed and a guy was to say I only date girls that are not obese, there would be an uproar, but at the end of the day, it's her preference and there's nothing wrong with it. Live and accept.

[JHAYES317]

Not comparable. Women can lose weight so it’s not shallow to not like fat women. Men can’t get taller.

[HawkPerception]

@JHAYES317 What about a girl's face? That's not something she can change. Would you date a midget that's 3 feet tall with a deformed face? That's not something in her control.

[JHAYES317]

Ok fair but guys can be ugly too…so height is more like boob size than ugliness…

[HawkPerception]

@JHAYES317 Man... you can compare it to whatever you want. It's everyone's right to be attracted to what they're attracted to and choose who they'd like to date. If life gave you the short straw, then just deal with it. Work with what you have. Life isn't fair.

[JHAYES317]

A lot of it isn’t even attraction though…a lot of women just want tall guys for the social status association because they feel embarrassed to be with short guys because societally they are seen as inferior

[HawkPerception]

@JHAYES317 And they're free to do so. Why would you want a girl that cares for that social status anyways? She wouldn't be with you for you. Let people be people and figure things out in life. I can tell you if you keep playing the victim, then most girls will be deterred, whether they're looking for a tall dude or not.

[JHAYES317]

Look I don’t have an issue with that, the problem is girls won’t admit that they have those shallow worldviews and try to pass it off as simply an aesthetic preference when it’s really more of a social class thing for most

[DizzyDesii]

@JHAYES317 okay but my main preference is 5’7-6’2. Thats a pretty big range so please find someone else to bother this Christmas

@HawkPerception You made great points

[JHAYES317]

@DizzyDesii that’s fair you are more reasonable than those girls who insist on 5’10”+ I’ll give you that

[citygirlxox]

I have and after our first kiss he made me sit down I felt uncomfortable 😭😭😭😩😩

[HawkPerception]

Lmaoooo

[RingOfFire]

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

[JHAYES317]

Would you have been ok with bending down to kiss him?

[Katebfun]

No. We all have preferences. I'm pretty short as is.

[JHAYES317]

If it’s a dealbreaker that’s not a preference that’s a standard and your own height doesn’t justify you being any more or less picky

[BoopBoopBeep]

I'm only 5'9" and I get tons of attention. Don't sweat the haters.

[HawkPerception]

I'm 5'9 and barely get any attention. What's your secret? 100 pushups, 100 situps, 100 squats and a 6.2 mile run? iykyk 😂

[BoopBoopBeep]

@HawkPerception I don't know. I'm a good conversationalist and I keep them laughing. I also meet a lot of them at races. I do charity 10Ks to half marathons in body armor, so that tends to get them to come talk to me and ask what's what. That may get them to come over, but the rest gets them to stay.

[HawkPerception]

A very social humanitarian athlete. Yup that'd do it.

[BoopBoopBeep]

@HawkPerception I have rescue kittens. It's probably that. Rescue kittens are pretty awesome.

[wiltingrosepetal]

@BoopBoopBeep Rescue kittens? Okay you are officially every woman's type 🙏

[BoopBoopBeep]

@wiltingrosepetal They rescued me :)

[Booklover_90]

I’m pretty short myself. It’d be next to impossible for me to find a man who’s shorter than me.

[JHAYES317]

Not true. Ever heard of Peter Dinklage?

[Booklover_90]

I know it’s not impossible. That’s why I said *next to* impossible. Anyway, no I haven’t. Who is that?

[Nikki1989]

Yes, I prefer short men anyway.

[MissBoogus]

Nope he can be ugly but can’t be short lol

[JHAYES317]

So you’d rather date a tall and ugly guy than anyone who is short lol?

[MissBoogus]

@JHAYES317 yea

[JHAYES317]

Wow what if you have kids that are then ugly but instead take after you in the height department instead of your partner?

[MissBoogus]

@JHAYES317 I don’t need to really worry about that we are both attractive and my kids are tall like dad 😂

[JHAYES317]

Ok but if one of your kids had ended up short, would you have them liked them less due to your height bias?

[MissBoogus]

@JHAYES317 of course not

[JHAYES317]

But you just said you would view someone who is tall and ugly more positive than anyone who was short…

[MissBoogus]

@JHAYES317 yeah for a dating perspective I don’t care about my kids heights lol

[JHAYES317]

If you’ve already had kids…then why do you care if your partner is tall? It is because you just want to date a guy as a status symbol or feel ashamed being with a man shorter than you because it triggers your own insecurities about your body?

[MissBoogus]

@JHAYES317 I guess I shouldn’t have commented since I’m not single, oops. I didn’t always care about height but my first boyfriend is very tall and I’ve definitely gotten accustomed. Now I could never date someone that’s shorter!

[JHAYES317]

So you just have a height fetish then got it. If you had the option between Gheorghe Muresan (7’7”) or Seth Green (5’3”), you’d take muresan lol

[YourSong]

I’m really short myself. I don’t think so

[JHAYES317]

What does your own height have to do with anything?

[YourSong]

Our kids will be reallyyyyyy short then

[JHAYES317]

1. That’s not how genetics work…you can have short kids even if both of y’all are tall and vice versa…2. www.popularmechanics.com/.../#

[Minahh]

Def not shorter than me. I'm 5'5.

[EmpressAJ]

No I want my man tall and cute 😂

[JHAYES317]

What if you had to choose between tall and ugly or short and cute?

[DreamLife7]

If he's wealthy other than that no

[Carly2005]

Um I’m 5ft not many shorter then me.

[JHAYES317]

Doesn’t answer the question…

[Onyx436]

Personally no

[JHAYES317]

Why not?

[kova_808]

Yes absolutely