What are common personality traits in the opposite sex that if you could completely change, it would give them the biggest boost in attractiveness?

[Jammaa]

If personality doesn't matter to you, please don't answer this question.

I'm sure most of you can think of 1-3 things, but you can say more if you really want to.

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If you could explain how/why it's such a big deal, thank you, that would be very helpful. This is simply for my curiosity and hope to make the world better

[aceleon]

stop thinking we are equals or same.

stop trying to make guys see from your point of view

start understanding we are complete opposites by nature even our biology is almost completely opposite of each other, only place we are equals is against law and we are not and will never see from your point of view, you think make up is good and shows effort in looking good for him, no it only shows you are fake and prone to waste time on something pointless, you think your body count is irrevelant and your level of experience even a good thing, no it is important and your experience is not worth it. you think our jealousy stems from insecurity, no it stems from not wanting to share, it is not fear of losing, it is wanting you all to ourselves. and many things like this.

[RavVid]

Taking responsibility and not going straight to victim-hood at the drop of a pin.

Reluctance to apologize and admit fault.

[IslaTheWitch]

Personality matters the most to me, and I don't believe changing anything would make it better. I appreciate specific personality traits, but my friend values different characteristics. People vary, and it's this diversity that allows them to discover their ideal partners.

I wouldn't change a thing.

[DizzyDesii]

Feeling like they always have to be the stronger and more knowledgeable one. Its sexier when someone is vulnerable and willing to learn

[NathanDavis]

I would not want to change anybody... I just usually pair with people who are funny, smart and interesting.

And they are also genuinely confident and I sure love that a whole lot

[Jammaa]

It sounds like you're saying "be who you are" and I just think that's a huge excuse for not trying to improve yourself.

I have a genuine quesion. Do you think it's not possible for people who are not as funny, intelligent, interesting, or confident to improve themselves? That's really what this post is trying to do for people. If you really don't think there is a possibility, I'd have to respectfully disagree but I'd love hear what you have to say

[NathanDavis]

all of these are developed as well... And it does take time, yes...

which implies a gradual change and improvement over time

[Billlewis]

Arrogance. There is nothing more exciting than an arrogant woman who treats me like shit❤️

[Anonymous]

Stop wearing make up. stop taking a shower before every date.

[Roudyrebel8]

Their mindset of what makes them beautiful

[slatyb]

Imagine no religion.