Which personality trait are you attracted to the most in the opposite sex?

[Babygirl_S]

I absolutely can't resist men who remain calm all the time and express their disapproval politely. I don't think being aggressive is masculine. It just shows the person has psychological issues.

The ability to avoid expressing anger is a strength, not a weakness.

No matter how good a guy looks, if he is frequently irritated then I dislike him

[WonderBell99]

I have terrible anger issues, mostly a form of defense mechanism I developed in my early teens. I also panic easily, so I prefer men who are calm and composed and do not shout. I do not get angry as long as the person I'm conversing with does not raise their voice. I'm more of "an eye for an eye" person. If someone hurts me, I tend to want to hurt them 10x more. I'm not vengeful, just really sensitive. More often than not, I do not hurt anyone back, I just burst into tears and sob loudly.

I don't think it's possible to pick out one trait, because I would absolutely only date someone who checks all my boxes in terms of personality. The core requirements being faithful, loving, calm, altruistic, and respectful.

[WonderBell99]

Tbh, I just want a guy who is so genuinely good that I want to give him all my hugs every day.

[Moist_Gums]

I have quite a few ones but one that I feel is harder to find in modern times is a man who's emotionally and mentally attracted to women. Not just physically or due to biology.

So many men (not all) have this thing where they can sleep with and marry women, but they don't actually like them that much as people. They like their male friends more mentally or emotionally.

I love that the guy I'm with now genuinely loves and respects women even tho he still has his group of close guy friends he grew up with. He's a gentleman, protector, and good person to people by nature. That shit is so attractive to me.

[dynamicyandere]

Intense, deep, ride-or-die loyalty.


It takes time to develop. But if that is established, it really strikes a deep cord.


To know that they will be with me through thick and thin.


To know I will have them by my side in a world where so many people are so fickle.


To know I can rely on them 100%. To know that I can trust them with my heart completely.

[dynamicyandere]

Other related traits are that they respect me, trust me, and they enjoy following my lead.

Then other traits that are important:
* They are always open and honest and sincere with me.
* They have great communication skills, or are willing to learn.
* They have great conflict-resolution skills.
* They are able to connect with me emotionally on a deep level.
* They share the same views and values when it comes to relationships.
* They have the ability to have deep conversations with me.
* They’re fun to be around, comforting to be around, and always down to try new things with me.
* They’re empathetic and understanding and nurturing.
* They share the same sense of humor as I do.
* They are able to both be serious with me when needed, yet they’re also able to goof off with me too at the right times.

[The_Shadow_Dweller]

Many people are not able to digest their success the right way. Attitude, ego and other such behaviours are a huge no no for me. Maybe that in girls, is what I would rather not prefer? Maybe?

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[Puppystarfish23]

I really like a nurturing, caring man. I like to have someone to look after me and someone I can look after. I think it has a lot to do with being the youngest in my family and also having a lot of learning difficulties I'm abit of a hot mess at times so it's nice to have someone who's gonna be there to help me out if I fall and protect me

[CateM]

Passion! That fire within that makes life so alive! I'll tell you one thing that'll make me fall head over heels for a guy is having a hobby and truly enjoying it. I once had a crush who loved to cook, and he could go on and on about little tricks and unwritten rules in the kitchen. He took pride in it, but he didn't let it get to his head, which is also positive

[TrueConfection]

I'm with you. Calm and mature are very sexy traits in a man. The ones that get themselves worked up into a tizzy are instantly unattractive.

[Lionman95]

Hard to say just one trait. Generally I like women that make me comfortable being in a conversation with them. Especially if they can make me fall for them in a playful way.

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[serious]

Not just one, there are quite a few personality traits I find appealing. It is tough for me to choose which is the most I find attractive.

[manicmage42]

Takes control. Can be harsh if necessary, selfish but sweet.

[Nervzgrl]

Quite honestly I look for a calm guy who doesn’t need to be so eager to attach himself to or fetishizes my bisexuality. Respects my autonomy. Also has a dry sense of humor that sneaks up on me.

[FreyaRed]

Situational awareness and controlled aggression

[KostasKouvalis]

Stay away from me then😂

I kind of like assertive women, as long as they aren't directing it towards me.

[ritxi]

Being confident and not to be driven by other people.

[exitseven]

somebody who has a good sense of humor. To be with me, you really need one.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

When she is open to talk deeply about stuff, she isn't short minded, doesn't loose attraction when you open up to her

[Nikki1989]

Impossible to name just one.

[PizzaPieMamaBear]

Humor, confidence, assertiveness

[OfMiceandMen]

Confidence, but not overconfident.

[magiusX26]

actually being feminine

[NostalgiaSenpi]

It doesn't matter. I'm forever alone, lol.

[Shy_Steve]

Shyness usually.

[Kalyani22226]

I like men who had lot of patience 😉

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Generosity

[shortster]

Loyalty