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What’s the biggest age gap you’ve had?
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I was 24, she was 42. Yes, old enough to be my mother, but she wasn't.
I was 25, she was 36. Very fun girl, but not one for a serious relationship.
I was 26, she was 37 (different girl.) Definitely not a wife candidate!
I was 53, she was 36. Fun but I think she was alcoholic.
I am 68 (69 in two days) and my fiancee is 60. Best woman I have ever dated.
âBut I think she was an alcoholicâ lmao that made me laugh. Iâm happy for you man. Genuine love is becoming less and less common
@OlderAndWiser Your fiance Looks Like she is in her 40's? xx
I think sheâs complimenting your fiancè brother.
Check your DMs.
@Danny_dan92 Yes, I get that, but I don't think she has ever seen a picture of me or my fiancee, so I sent her a photo link in a DM.
Never been one to care much. always preferred older women. Though not had anyone past their 80's.
Think I did do a friends 75 year old grandma at a party once. Was 19 and at a uni frat party in one of the class mates massive country houses.
Was a drinker at the time, hence the "haze" but was out for a smoke with one of the other lads when she walked into the house with a wink. We had a few words and she was up for it.
We both got her on, and went back to the party. The only reason I recall it at all, was in class a few days later. He was saying someone left his grans room a mess!
honestly, I wouldnât go more than three years. Thereâs so many people in this world and it be nice if everybody had someone, so I just think why not deal in your range, thereâs enough for everyone lol.
Yeah I can see that
Iâve only had a relationship with someone who was 1.5 older than me.
Not bad
But I dated someone who was 20 years older than me. It never reached the point of having a relationship though.
Not surprised
*1.5 year older in my original answer
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For a real relationship, it would have been she was 26 when I was 50, and she was 23 when I was 19.
Around two years older. I usually either date people of my age or a bit younger.
I find younger women annoying if...
1) They take themselves to seriously and/or
2) They're just not very intelligent... actually, women of any age can get on my nerves when they're just retarded. I like feeling needed for things... but not for things like helping them figure out a remote control or explaining why the pay gap isn't really a thing... that sort of stuff should just be common knowledge.
Otherwise... the younger chicks are just fine and dandy. I love fresh meat and that new car smell.
What I want is the 20 something body with the 40 something maturity.
I'm currently in an LDR with someone who is 41 years younger than me but we have never met. It works well on paper but not sure about what it would be like IRL. Although I do have to say it is quite a strong connection considering we are from opposite sides of the planet and completely different cultures. It just developed that way over the few years we have been communicating. Didn't start out looking for anything like that.
Right there with you, man. 25 and 18. MISTAKE, lmao. 18+ night at the club, hanging out with her also 18 year old friends, including 18 year old DUDESâŚ. allllllll fuckinâ set with that. Seven years is whatever, Iâd date a 37 year old right now without giving it a second thought, even a little younger than that. But up through your mid 20s, one year is like two years with that stuff, so gaps are exaggerated.
I was in a relationship with a girl more than a decade younger than me. I realized early on to never take her seriously and only enjoy her body and her company and compensate her well for it. She had some bad habits eg. drugs and alcohol and i couldn't advice her out of them, so i life her.
Current one, by six years. She is 25 I am 31.
Thatâs golden
In high-school I dated a few older guys but it never worked out. I know now that I prefer guys that are slightly younger than I am
Young cougar
Thatâs fair lol
I have always had a high sex drive and have to say she is correct. When I was 21 I could blast more than 15 loads a day and keep going. Now at 31 I can only do half that and my balls start to hurt đ
Exactly lmao
I used to have the cum capacity of girls basically. Just needed like 4-6 mins in between rounds. Now I need like 20 mins
@NYlatefun I would maybe make a exception for you đ
@NYlatefun She married bra. (I know Dont ignore Collard Subs) but like still Honestly I like the idea of not being stimulated allllllll the time like just chill out, learn some material and be constructive with my time. Instead of fapping away like some drug addict.
Omg lol thatâs young, Iâd say 7 years. I was 22 he was 29.
Thatâs the same thing tho no? Lol same age difference just different ages
Yeah lol but teen and twenty is different
Thatâs definitely true
I am 24 and he is 33 (current relationship).
My ex was four years younger...
no issues whatsoever
I was 22 and he was 49
Holy fucken shit đ
Lol. It was more of a situationship than an actual relationship tho
I know a girl that did that
It was a fun time. He's a great guy.
As long as he didnât pass anything on to you and or mess up your life I suppose. I could never. If Iâm still single at that age Iâm cutting my loses
He was married but separated. He didn't pass anything on to me. We were both tested
Lmao thatâs literally the exact same thing⌠I would ask you what his name was.
But the guy this girl I know slept with was (no homo) a good looking dude. Even at his age itâs obvious he couldâve been or was a male model. And he was wealthy, had a big home by Hollywood hills
This guy wasn't a male model but he was definitely attractive. He wasn't super wealthy or anything. Just sexy af.
His name is Chris.
Lol ok No definitely a different person
Uh oh. I know whyâŚ
It's refreshing to find a guy, who's not into women much younger than he is. Respect for this
I had read somewhere that the best age gap for couples is 2-5 years
I would date a girl slightly younger or older.
It all comes down to maturity, mindset and experience. And by experience I donât mean sexually. Just in general
I totally agree with you đ
5 years but mentally we were on the same level so it was a fantastic relationship, she was very mature for her age.
after age 30 both seem so mature no issue. like when i was 46 and she was 27. both grown ups. she had a career so not a real gap.
True, you'll never be 19 again.
For a relationship... I think 14? For sex, mid 20something probably.
by that i mean years DIFFERENCE not Years OLD
bout to sound all chomo up in here...
Around 52 and low 20s , was fun while it lasted.
Holy shit man. Different maturity levels I bet
Relationship? She was 17 years older.
Just a date? She was 31 years older. I was shocked because I thought she was maybe 34 or 35. She was 57 and had a 38 year old daughter. I was 26 at the time.
10 years when I was 28. She was 18. It didn't last long though.
i only have one relationship... we are of the same age
At 36 I slept with an 18yo aged 42 I had a blow job from a 64yo
There is a 10 year gap between me and my partner.
Older or younger?
He is older
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Sounds like itâs been a long committed relationship
It is and still going strong
Very nice
I was 30 she was 38.. Not a relationship just a little thing for a month.. Lol..
I was 22 and she was 27. I told her I was 24 and she told me she was 25.
For sex only - ca. 30 years.
In a relationship - 14 years (down).
Thereabouts as well. Can't remember how old I was but she was 19. I think I was 25 at the time.
It wasn't a relationship, it was just sexual - 11 years.
34 and 19. The almighty power of a 15 year gap. Didn't even have a problem with it.
Most of the guys I've dated have been 3 - 6 years older than me.
I was 23 and She was 35, now I am 53 and she is 65... 30 years together...
I was 39 and he was 29. So, 10 years.
She was in her early 30s and I was 16. It was just sex though, not really dating.
15 years. And I'll NEVER do it again! I learned my lesson.😆
9 years
Which way?
I was the younger one :P
I figured
2 and a half years. Wouldnât date anyone who isnât in this age gap range: (0-3 years).
Would never say on public forum
Ok⌠so he was 60 years older
Or 20 years younger
7 years age gap so far
41(me) and 19( her) it didn't last long it was just sex...
i was 16 he was 28
What in the hell?
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dunno what to tell ya. big oops
Thatâs a mega oops. Jesus
I was 19 he was 37
6 years my senior, a summer to remember
My husband was 12 years older than me.
I was 24, she was 18. Again!
7 months older than me lol
Not bad
25 years. maybehahaha
Younger or older?
younger but no one would know. hahahaha Gotta run now. Appointment.
Facken hell lol
My current boyfriend. I'm 40 and he's 25.
Cougar!!
I actually really don't like that term. It implies that women with much younger men are in some desperate mid life crisis and desperately chasing after younger men (perhaps even in a predatory fashion)
My relationship doesn't fit any of those. I'm not in some mid life crisis (I'm very comfortable with my age and where I am, and still was before I met my current boyfriend). I wasn't desperate for some younger guy's approval. In fact, he was the one who pursued me, and I was the one who was initially hesitant because of the age gap. Furthermore, my relationship isn't predatory in any way.
Also, I find it a bit sexist. There's not a term for men who date younger women.
I see your point, but. You have to understand why that term exists.
My apologies for not knowing how your relationship came to be for I assumed. Nonetheless as I mentioned the phrase exists for a reason
Why does it exist?
Because in most cases older women are the ones that go and make the approach on the guy.
No, this is not cause theyâre desperate. To me, I think it happens for two reasons.
1. Theyâre experienced and know what they want.
2. Theyâre confident compared to the younger females
I was 28 and he was 37.
I was 16 he was 28
WHAT?
Yeah it's legal here though
Thatâs crazy
What do you mean?
I get where you live thatâs legal, but from my understanding you where dating a pedophile
Your understanding is wrong then
To each their own
No it's not an opinion, factually you can't be a pedophile having sex with a 16 year old. The kid would have to be illegal at least.
Where you live
Even if that wasnât law, I could never date a girl that age ever. As specified in the question I once dated a 19 year old when I was 26 and our mindset and maturity was vastly different. So for a dude in his late 20âs to date a 16 year old is insane.
Yeah it's crazy but you were talking a pedo which is wrong
No clue what you said there
i was 18, he was 29...
6 years. I was 20 and she was younger.
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18 to 42 she was older
My current relationship, we are 6 1/2 years apart.
My biggest age gapâs was like 5 years 🤔🤔
My ex and I are seven years apart.
I was 22 and he was 45. It was ons thing though
5-6 years. He was younger.
43 DECADES
The what?
26 years in between
8 years younger than me
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