Is it true that men don’t love the same way women do?

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

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Man I can’t believe that incels have found a way to twist things around 😭😭😭 who hurt you? Like why use my question for this 😭

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

hi, i recently watched something in relation to this, to make it easier we need to include sexual relations... when a female has them with a man, she cannot help to produce love hormones oxytocin... when a man has sex he does not produce these hormones of love... certainly in the same manner he doesn't, i believe after ejaculation a small amount. this is why a friends with benefits/ i hate that term by the way, will always end the female in a world of shit because she can't but help her own body chemicals and the more she has sex with someone the more the bond, whereas he can still be as casual as fuck... so yes i do believe men and women love entirely differently...

[Asad1ONE1]

Lol you're 47 id expect you to know better. That's a stupid, outdated debunked myth.

[ClaircognizantEmpath]

@Asad1ONE1 and you are a 40yr old with 6% mho, lol

[Asad1ONE1]

My point exactly.

Women mature faster than men 🤡

[Ms_Facesitter]

I think so, slightly? Different gender, society treats us differently, forcing us to think, do and expect different things.

Like the man is expected by society to be the provider so that subconsciously makes my boyfriend want to treat me, I think. It's one of his ways to show affection.
Of course he also loves to get physical and stuff. And who says I can't pay for him?

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't say we don't love the same. We don't love the same WAY. At the end of the day GOOD (key word) men, want love and want to give love same GOOD (also key word) women. We just have 2 totally different ways of going about it. Women are generally more emotionally driven while men are more physically driven. This is why manipulative women are good at EXPLOITING this trigger with men. And why exploitative men are good at manipulating a woman's emotional triggers.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

So women love harder?

[Opinion Owner]

No. I would argue men are just better at controlling thier feelings then women are. Your gender loves to ride the highs, men don't.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

I don’t want to feel so sad because I miss him at night :(

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You ask 10 people what love is and they probably all 10 gonna give you a different answer.

The way man love is the same way woman love which is affection, kindness, and faithfulness.

This idea being pushed that men and women are different is BS.

Except for our private parts we all are the same when it comes to emotions, affection, kindness which makes us love.

[myloveforuisinfinte]

Aww so true

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

You are getting wiser compared to how you used to be I’m really proud of you. What changed?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Been the same.

[HighValue]

Men often love much deeper than women do. Men often don't show their emotional pain outwardly because it will be used against them, plus men are abused so often that they eventually build up an emotional hardiness.

[TenderFantasy]

Nope I don't think so. Women are able to bring forth another LIFE because of their love for someone. Tell me that isn't love! Yeah, accidents and women who just like to think with their bottom half, can also do that, but this is also a sign that they've been INTIMATE with someone! Intimacy is supposed to be a very special thing! Men just like to not think that, or cheapen it!

[KrakenAttackin]

@TenderFantasy These same women have zero problem having that child torn from their womb, limb by limb, because the child is inconvenient for them.

[Asad1ONE1]

@TenderFantasy So that probably explains why you hate men? Because you think they can't love the way women do?

It's this mindset that make pet like you remain miserable.

[aceleon]

yes, we are opposite creatures at almost everything, love is not an exception.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

So women love harder?

[Asad1ONE1]

No they just love differently. Why? Men are attracted to women and women are attracted to men. That's why.

[aceleon]

no they love emotionally while man love more sexually
which one would it hurt you more?
your guy fucking another girl but actually still in love with you (don't say it can't be asume it is)
or your guy never fucking another woman but falling for some other woman instead of you.

[Asad1ONE1]

Wow seems you have plenty to learn sad 😢

[aceleon]

@Asad1ONE1 yeah yeah go ahead and play the bigger man, whatever makes you sleep better at nights.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

Any type of cheating would really hurt me. I don’t think it’s just sexual though since love technically is an emotional thing. Some girls are more sexual than guys anyways

[Asad1ONE1]

I wonder how you sleep at night knowing men love sexually and women love emotionally.
🤡😴

[aceleon]

more sexual doesn't equal the sexually bonded, i meant as in guys would be much more devastated by the sexual cheating even if there was no feeling while most guys really wouldn't feel all that hurt by their girls loving another guy if there was no physical thing, it would be a dumping the girl in both cases but one would hurt less compared to other.

[TenderFantasy]

@aceleon please stop BLANKETING everyone with the same brush. I'd also feel hurt with ANY kind of cheating. The other kind, the sexual kind, can bring forth life too and so people really should stop cheapening the experience of sex! Young people tend to do that a lot!

[aceleon]

@TenderFantasy agree with all of this. i didn't said you wouldn't be hurt with the other, i asked which of them would you choose if it has to happen.

[Asad1ONE1]

I just don't know where you get your "facts". How is it even possible for this to be gender specific?

[aceleon]

@Asad1ONE1 dude i'm not even talking with you here, what are you? some leech? can't you recognize that you are out of the debate here?

[Asad1ONE1]

Oh I thought you were replying to me above 😂.
But that doesn't take away from the validity of my answer.

... and the absurdity (and may I even say immaturity) of yours.

You are 21 only. Still got a while to go...

[aceleon]

@Asad1ONE1 no you still don't get it and seriously you are pushing it too far kid, a while to go? Yeah yeah go back to the corner you crawled out and dream whatever you like big boy i Just feel sorry for all the years you kept existing and turned into nothing but a age shaming loser, go sell your pseudo wisdom elsewhere grandpa, no one is interested.

[Asad1ONE1]

Ok yea nice counterargument 🤡

[RebelinSteel]

Yes, is it true that women don’t all love the same, yes, is it true that all men do not love the same. Everyone loves differently it’s not about men and women, love for each individual is different and changes.

[Lionman95]

What do you mean? At first thought I´d say yes because women and men are differently with a different hormon system and therefore they come to different conclusions in situations.

[LazerBean]

No, it is not. The way a person "loves" is not gender specific, but rather is based on their upbringing, personal values, how their life has shaped them, etc...

[whirled_up_girl]

I would imagine there are some similarities and some differences as they comments demonstrate. I think everyone beyond just men and women have a different idea of what love is.

[LadyKitty]

I think so and to add this site is full of incels / red pill bros.

[Asad1ONE1]

Says the femcel 🤡

[LadyKitty]

@Asad1ONE1 sweetheart I am not even a femcel. Though we all know you are an incel though

[Asad1ONE1]

Who's "we"? wtf?

[Jessikaah91]

Definitely true. Women are very different to men and their definition of "love"

[AnusNdaPainus]

Men love idealistically

women love opportunistically

A man’s love is more genuine

[KrakenAttackin]

@AnusNdaPainus. This is the bottom line.

[wiltingrosepetal]

Yes, the genders are different in many ways. We love differently, but the same amount

[bobalife]

Each individual loves differently; hence, the 5 love languages~

[Unit1]

I don't know about you or the others but i want to wrap myself around a sweet girl. That's how i love girls.

[DextroShade]

Men love idealistically while women love opportunisticly.

[KrakenAttackin]

True. Men live a woman for WHO she is. Women love a man for what he can provide. Men love much more deeply than women.

[_piotr]

Very true!

[TenderFantasy]

Nope! You just CANNOT generalize like that! Ask my recent EX the many reasons why he left me! It's obvious he didn't love me for me!

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@KrakenAttackin: That's not love, that's using and exploiting someone.

[_piotr]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy It's women's "love".

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy This is the basis for a woman's love.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Again, that's not love. A woman that loves a man doesn't base it if a guy has or doesn't have something for her.

Possessions can literally be lost from one day to the next in various kinds of misfortune.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy "Possessions can be lost"... yes, and the woman will leave. When a man loses in business/career, the woman will bounce like a bad check. This is how women love.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Ok. Like I said in my original post that if you ask 10 people about love, you'll get 10 different answers and you have your answer and definition of what love is which doesn't match the Biblical definition of love.

[KrakenAttackin]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy This is the reason that the Quoran and the Bible both make reference to Hell being filled with mostly with ungrateful wives.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The Bible doesn't say that.

[TenderFantasy]

Of course this answer is going to get a lot of upvotes. There's a lot of women haters on here lol.

[ISFPCaramelPrincess]

Actually in Islam it is known that heaven or jannah is composed of mostly women

[_piotr]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Women are rather evil. Why do you think that their definition of love will match Biblical one? On contrary, when men have trouble women leave without remorse. They are not like men. They do NOT even experience physical attraction to males. They are complexly different beings.

[_piotr]

They are probably superior beings, but evil.

[TenderFantasy]

@_piotr Spreading lies, spreading lies, spreading lies like you've been badly hurt.

[KrakenAttackin]

@_piotr In the words of the God Father (Kevin Samuels), "Men are just better people".

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@_piotr: All people that aren't born again don't match the Biblical definition of love.

And It's not just women that are evil, all people are sinners and some worse than others.

[_piotr]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy As you probably noticed, the question was about actual love, not biblical definition of love. All people are sinners, but women are more cruel and selfish in the matters of "love"/romance/whatever they call it. Also notice that women can exert control over men by using sinful lust as chains, while other way around it does not work, because women are not attracted to male bodies.

For men, the true freedom and happiness is to get rid of all sexual desires and leave without women in purity. Even in marriage sex should only be hardly tolerated and only used for procreation.
Sex is evil. The lust that comes with sex is a punishment for men for original sin and not part of original God's design. Women have this enormous power and just use it to torment and twist men.

"Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman."
"But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn." <-- Sex in marriage is just better then sin, but not great. It is only "permissible": (" But I speak this by permission (...) For I would that all men were even as I myself." (...) "But if they cannot contain, let them marry")

[_piotr]

*live without women in purity NOT leave

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@_piotr: Biblical love is the real love. All "love" people come up with is their own version of it and like I said 10 people will have their own different versions of love.

And for the rest of what you wrote just comes off as bitter and actually doesn't make sense.

If you don't like women or attracted to them then that's probably gonna lead you right into homosexuality.

[_piotr]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy Biblical love is the real love, but people do not practice it so it is not practiced love. What does not make sense?
Letting away sexual desires leads to God, freedom, purity, happiness, not to homosexuality.
That is why priests do not have wives. That is why many saints, including st. Paul, practiced it. That is why Marry and Joseph did not had sex. Sex is evil and is a tool used by women to subjugate men. Look around you, we live in gynocentric world!
Jesus came to Earth as a male, not a women, because he came to the most poor, despised and disliked ones - men. Women are superior beings than men, cherished by this world, but are naturally more inclined to evil.

[_piotr]

*practiced it -> it = purity

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

@_piotr: This is my last post. Biblical love is only practiced and can only be practiced by saved christians.

2nd point, God made man and woman as sexual beings so living the life you are talking about isn't natural nor the way things are since the beginning of time.

3rd point. Priests are and can have wives as the Bible teaches, the catholic church just made that bs up.

Last point, after Jesus was born Mary and Joseph did have plenty of sex as Mary was Joseph wife and they had multiple kids as the Bible clearly teaches.

[_piotr]

@Hispanic-Cool-Guy This is also my last post.

Biblical love is only practiced and can only be practiced by saved christians. --> Buttery butter... Any more tautologies? You are out of scope.

Mary is Perpetual Virgin "Evervirgin"!!! Mary and Joseph never disgraced themselves with sex.

[Kingofkings1992]

That is way over simplified. You can’t sum up two entire genders into one single linear line. There’s shitty men out there, and shitty women. There’s also good men, and genuinely good women.

[DreamLife7]

Yes.. Men will sit here and say no no.. but yes it's true men are more conditional lovers while women are unconditional lovers.

[Asad1ONE1]

That's not gender specific. Men can love as hard as any woman and vice versa.

[Djaay]

Men will love (IF) during sex the intimate bond develop's into a close relation with one another.

[Dreamclouds]

No it is not true, stop listening to all the idiots around you

[Anonymous]

Men and women love differently, but just as deeply.

[Anonymous]

Well first tell me how do women love and I'll confirm

[Anonymous]

Men take it as a rejection if you don't want them to get physically close to you. Even if you just met them.

[Amara_09]

Do humans love the same way? No

[laly520]

each one love in a different way

[whistlingwh0res]

Men = women = prostitutes = Americans

[JacobJordan]

Of course

[Charliefretz329]

One the whole, yes. I agree