Could you fall in love with a masculine woman?

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I'm a feminist and I'm completely masculine, I don't wear anything that men don't wear, I don't lick or talk about anything that men don't do or talk about.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

I don't know if im masculine but I’m definitely more tomboyish than girly girl. You just need a guy that prefers that. My guy is cool with that. We just about wore the same shit on baecation 😂 One day i had on a baseball jersey with ripped jeans, a baseball cap, and trainers. he's not bothered by that shit as long as im still girly underneath all that. When in the bedroom, i dress sexy and have cute lace or floral bras and panties and thats more than enough for him. He can tolerate my 80% tomboy 20% sexy seductress side. I’m sure he would prefer to be the only one to see that sexy side of me anyways

PBandJ_Nerd · Accepted Answer

I could, but that's just me. I tend to like a mix of fem and masculine in my partners. I tend to find women with abs and muscles attractive.

GuyAnswersGirls123 · Accepted Answer

I might be able to get over the masculine fashion at some point but my biggest difficulty would be competing over the leadership/protector role in the household. It's like if the building catches on fire and we both want to lead each other in the opposite direction, we'd both die. I think every household needs a designated executive decision-maker to resolve conflicts and I need to have that responsibility to feel like a proper man.

TheSpaceGnome · Accepted Answer

No, but wearing mens clothing and sharing hobbies with a guy is NOT being masculine, masculine/feminine is about how your face/body physically looks, not your habits, hobbies, interests, or sense of style.

I would prefer a very feminine cute looking woman who does not wear makeup, wears pants and hoodies, and plays video games and draws and likes sci-fi and bugs and dinosaurs and anime.

Summeroflove · Answer

Well. Most feminists hate men so… I don’t know if you can really call yourself one.

AManOnTheWeb · Answer

I'm not attracted to it personally, but I'm sure there are people out there who are.

My wife is a bit tomboyish. She rarely does makeup and is more comfortable in sneakers than more feminine shoes, but she's not cutting her hair super short, nor trying to appear masculine. She's authentic to herself, and I love her for it. I'd say we're both feminists.

Anonymous · Answer

A clear distinction must be made:

If a woman looks feminine, dresses well, but has a tomboyish demeanor, that's fine with me, in fact the contrast between the two makes her more attractive in my opinion.

If a woman does everything to look like a man aesthetically, shaved haircut, men's clothes, etc., then I don't like her at all.

turnpost · Answer

I think the problem most of the time for me is weather the masculine woman is even into me. Being tom boyish can work in a girls favor to be honest. So I dont see why not in that aspect. But if she is very of the stereotypical hyper macho media based masculinity that is super stubborn, then yes major problems. Id rather not hedge my bets with such a person, but to each there own.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

personally, no If I wanted to just date another man I would. IF your going to be that level of masculine, then your just another one of the boys. I got plenty of make friends, I don't need another. I would just ghost you

BoopBoopBeep · Answer

Haha, no chance... at least not as you're describing yourself. I've dated a lot of military women and a lot of competitive athletes. They still looked great in a cocktail dress.

Berethor · Answer

I find it interesting, the main problem is if she is more masculine than me. :)

PositiveNote · Answer

No no no no no! Women are not supposed to be on the Wheaties box sporting big old giant muscles! LOL

VikingWarLord · Answer

These "strong independent feminists" are just one strong, masculine, Big D stud like me away, from leaving feminism for good.  I've converted a few on that sub-reddit "ConvertingFeminist"

OfDeath · Answer

It’s not attractive to me. Having everything a man does short of a schlong doesn’t appeal to me in a romantic sense.

We may get along, but I would have problems raising the proverbial mast if you know what I mean.

HawkPerception · Answer

Not a chance. Why would I date a woman that wants to be a man?

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Women can't be masculine no matter what she tries to do. Her gender is feminine and women that dress in men's clothing are disgusting and I'm not attracted to such women nor love them.

DextroShade · Answer

No, I prefer feminine women which is why I married one.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

So you are standing at the pissoir between the other guys? 🙄

Anonymous · Answer

It would be HIGHLY unlikely for me, to be honest. I'm attracted to feminine girls and I'm not really a fan of modern feminism (or identity politics more broadly).

Shiningtempest · Answer

To be honest, I don't see myself falling in love with a masculine woman because of incompatible personality & values.

JacobJordan · Answer

Lol hell no. Just the personality of a masculine woman alone is exceedingly unattractive

andreasderjuengere · Answer

As long as this woman has no dick (and never had one) - I'd be ok with it.

Anonymous · Answer

Not my type. As a hetro man, I am attracted to femininity, not masculinity. But I'm sure there are guys who could.

Anonymous · Answer

You didn't specify, but I'm assuming you're asking about other women here?

CuriousMufuxka · Answer

No. Look too much like a dude. The sad part is there's dudes that look too much like a chick. Major bummer.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

No even when I was into women I liked feminine ones.

Dreamclouds · Answer

Yes, very much so... but she should still be sensitive and delicate to a degree I mean it is a masculine woman not a complete man.

Anonymous · Answer

No , not that I am intimidated, I would feel gay to be honest lmao You're more like a friend material , personally

Anonymous · Answer

Yeah I'm masculine enough to not be intimidated by women being masculine

Anonymous · Answer

yeah tough women are hot. there's a marketplace for this. See scissorfoxes. com for this type of thing.

coachTanthony · Answer

No thanks.

boggboss · Answer

Nope thats not attractive to me

abc3643 · Answer

No. Sorry, bud. See you at the big game?

LaFemmeFatale_1 · Answer

Why though?

Nikki1989 · Answer

Yes, very easily.

gorydetails · Answer

You sound like a bitch. Pass.

Akam93 · Answer

You sound like a bitch with a dick.

Anonymous · Answer

As a lesbian, sure.

Starrrboy · Answer

Nope.. tomboyish maybe..

Jamie05rhs · Answer

I don't know. Try me.

Slapmynuts · Answer

The key word there is Woman so yes!😁

OddBeMe · Answer

Can you define masculine and feminine for me?

rigmarole · Answer

Nope.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

NEVER.

Zestyassmf1997 · Answer

It’s unlikely.

JHAYES317 · Answer

Are you not lesbian?

Djaay · Answer

Lmao...

straightmax12 · Answer

Hell no.

vicphilips · Answer

Nope it's disgusting

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