I don’t think it is necessarily your looks that is throwing men off but rather they feel that you aren’t making much effort for them. First impressions count and if you are showing up dressed in casual outfits like that on a first date, it makes the man feel that he wasn’t even worth the effort for you.
It goes the same for girls. If a guy shows up dressed in a football jersey and sweatpants, the girl isn’t exactly going to be impressed by that.
On later dates you can start dressing down a bit but on a first date you want to look your best.
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I can understand the feeling to not be so sexually overt around males. It's true, it's unconventional. But any wise man who hangs around with you long enough would learn who you're attracted to and if they see the person you are before all the "glossy" female looks, might like you all the better.
Haha, yeah, I dig that a lot. It's like the evolved form of Tomboy. I met my prom date bagging my mom's groceries and she was in full Korean Teen Boy outfit, except she was maybe 5'8" and had clearly soft facial features. Beauty pokes through regardless of disguise.
She got all dolled up for her prom too; I had to be the luckiest freshman for years to come. I was happy to give her an excuse to feel girly and satisfy that sort of watermark story. I've always crushed on strong women. Artemis and Bacchus sitting in a tree f u c k i n g
Hmmmmmm I wouldn't be consciously restrictive but like you referred to I might think she was gay - So anyway hypothetically we establish she is straight and there seems to be a spark between us, yeah same process as any other girl, see where it goes. We probably all have preferences or types subconsciously since I am not a huge fan of the girly girl look, a masculine girl might have a better chance.
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I know a couple guys who probably would
Potentially. It wouldn't be your looks drawing me in but if your personality came across as cool and maybe we shared some interests or something, sure. I do like more feminine styles but it's not a requirement or anything. Clothing choice is generally not that important.
Autoandrophilia? What ever the cause I would not date a woman that was man like it's just naturally revolting.
https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/autoandrophiliaTomboyish look would be OK. Like in your pictures? A little too macho for me.
I *might* date someone who dresses like that, (like you?) but if this is coupled with a tomboyish personality then no. I need femininity to be attracted and my absolute preference are girls fully embracing of their sexuality.
However if this is you then you're still very attractive, so I think adding just a touch of feminine accessory will go a long way, you need not abandon your style but just a little something you know.No. I like feminine women. It would be a constant collision if I dated a masculine woman. We'd fight and argue about everything. I like to take lead and a relationship can't consist of two dominant roles. On top of this, they simply aren't attractive to me.
Well if i were a guy i’d date these two.. but theyre lesbians
I wouldn't date a masculine (androgynous) female because too many who say they are such are actually "transgenders", claiming to be female but actually born male. I am attracted only to born females who are heterosexual and who do not practise fraud especially of the kind I have described.
There's more to being feminine than just how you look. The main thing I care about when it comes to feminine physical appearence is shoulder and hair. If a girl has long hair and shoulders that don't reach from the moon to Manila, she can dress however she likes and I could still be attracted to her. I'm a lot more focused on the personality aspects of femininity.
i don't think the girls in the pictures look very masculine and i kinda like their style. but i don't like girls who have an attitude. i don't need girls to be timid and submissive but i'm a little stubborn and if a girl is acting aggressively then i wouldn't be able to get along with her.
This is a joke but i haved fucked a few "dykes" most girls like this still give off girl vibes
It depends, but generally speaking, I would if I was attracted to her, however I personally do not see women like the ones in the images as being masculine.
I am straight so I am not into men, so you acting, looking or dressing like one would be a turn off and not be a good girlfriend material. I don't mind if you got have hobbies and interests that are counted as manly.
No because I'm masculine and I'm not attracted to masculine individuals. Women don't have to dress a specific way, but if they present themselves as masculine because they believe they are or they just prefer to appear that way, that is unattractive.
Ok but why? I think thats more important... why does that seem like the right type of clothes to wear?
I like women with confidence and if she is dominating in bed it's also fine
But anything beyond that is a big no like if she tells me what to do and try to control then she is going to get what I do to people like that , a fist to the face
Hey she wants to be the man right? So she is going to get a punched like a manAbsolutely. I know it can feel as though looking abnormal is going to get in the way of your live life. But there are just as many people who prefer masculine women and/or don't care how masculine/feminine their partner looks, as there are people who don't.
The problem I would have is not that it is "masculine" but that it is ugly.
There are ways for women to wear pants without them looking like they have crawled out of a Jersey Shore dumpster.Gender roles ("masculine" and "feminine") are just a social construct, I would date any girl if I like her, regardless of her dressing style. I actually prefer tomboyish girls... and the clothes they wear are just like in your photos above, those clothes are not strictly male, they are unisex clothes, anyone can wear them. My favorite type of girls wear either causal jeans kind of clothes, or sporty style like t-shirts and sweatpants.
Hell yeah I would masculine girls are daddy
But I'm certain you didn't want that opinion since you are talking about the case of a STRAIGHT masculine female
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