How do men tell to their female crush that you like them without making her uncomfortable, and how does he get her to have a crush on him back?

[Anonymous]

How do men tell to their female crush that you like them without making her uncomfortable, and how does he get her to have a crush on him back? I've seen some women say they're attracted to men that back and cook. Then you have guys that thing it all depends on how masculine you are. And it's easy for a guy to just walk up to his female crush and say, "you wanna go out?" But how should a guy really reveal to his crush that he likes her and wants to date her without it being so obvious? And how does he, with and without his passion and talent for baking, working out, or what have you, get his female crush to have a crush on him back? Plan and simple, how does he get the woman that he's chasing to chase him back?

[RagnarRedbeard]

This is all kid stuff, talking about “crushes” and how to ask a girl out without actually asking her out.

There’s no magic formula to getting one girl to want you back. The only thing you can do if you want to increase your chances with women in general is improve yourself in ways that make yourself more attractive to them.

But then when you ask that one girl out, or when you go with whatever indirect approach you’re looking for, she either likes you or she doesn’t.

[Guy13]

Very carefully and for the most part it does not work that way

[Guy13]

These kinds of things happen naturally and within the confines of a shared vibe,

[emmaa1]

girls are really good at giving hints, if some of that is there, then you don't have to do much to get her to like you.

ask her if she like to hang out to get one on one communication.

[sadgirl0210]

Does she like u back? Then u don't have to try so hard.. if she doesn't like u back just ask if y'all can be friends

[inhua]

step 1) be attractive

if step 1 fails, everything else fails. passing step 1 is non-negotiable

[LogicBomber]

The nicer you are to a girl, the more she will lose interest.

[Asker]

But the meaner you are to a girl, the more she'll lose interest too. It's a catch 22 pretty much.

[Date_a_Snob]

Not true. I want to date a nice guy not a jerk.

[LogicBomber]

@Date_a_Snob All women say this but their actions prove otherwise.

@asker Not true. Obviously you don’t abuse them and crap. But there is a reason women fall in love with murders on deathrow, why they love ‘thug’ douche bag types, why they consistently prove/say they find quiet guys ‘creepy’, or they lose a little something for a guy who cries, or gain interest in a guy who beats the shit out of someone.

Yeah their will always be exceptions but it’s pretty standard to find women who say they want ‘a nice guy’ but only find the playboy, False alpha, arrogant, dickheads attractive.

It’s also very common that women want to be the one to ‘tame the wild beast’ (ex. beauty and the beast) they want to be that ‘special’ female who makes a piece of shit player into a good guy. Even though we all know this never happens, women live in a fantasy world and believe in the crap they watch in chick flicks.

[linklink]

For me I walk up to her say "I really like (insert thing I like about her) and think you are a cool person here is my number call me if you want to go on a date" then walk away at worst they don't have to feel uncomfortable turning me down best case I get a date with someone who I know for a fact is interested and isn't just uncomfortable saying no

[rabbitzzz]

Tell them within 5 seconds. The more you wait. The more awkward and uncomfortable it will be.

[TacosRAwesome]

Ask her on a normal low pressure date.

[taffy13]

Well he can't brain wash her to like him, but maybe ask her in a, date

[Anonymous]

Crushes are for high school.

[Asker]

You're never too old to have a crush, lol.