Men how do you handle having a crush on a girl who is in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

[Evan64]

I don't.

If I'm talking to someone and I find out she has a boyfriend, I almost immediately lose interest. I'd be chill with being friends, but on that note... I'd also be wary of causing drama. I wouldn't want to be the cause of them breaking up if the guy is insecure or whatever.

[Anonymous]

Disappear.

[Asker]

Why did my coworker invite me out for drinks then

[Asker]

And he knows I have a boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he wants to stay friends, maybe he wants to hang around and see if your situation changes, maybe he thinks he's got a shot anyway. Having female friends can be a pathway to meeting other girls.

There's a bunch of different roads a guy can take. For me, I want to avoid getting into that situation in the first place because I've been there before. I'd like to think I would just nope out of there.

[Anonymous]

To deal with this, you could date around elsewhere/ start talking to other girls.


Do not ruin relationships. You never know how it could affect the person you’d be hurting. This has happened to me three separate times. I have such a hard time trusting anyone now. I also ended up developing depression and anxiety, which I’ve been struggling with for years now. I’m not sure if that was because of everything that happened but I know it didn’t help. Nothing worse than being with someone who you think would never hurt you and than having them fall for someone else’s flirting.


If you have a crush on a girl in a relationship, you probably think she is the only girl you’d want to be with. This is ur brain feeding u bs. There are so many people out there. Just look elsewhere.

[Opinion Owner]

Just realized ur a girl lol but I hope that guys can read this and stop chasing after taken women

[Asker]

Yeah I was reading this completely confused hahahahah

[zoomerboomer]

I'll become "not close friends" or just sorta lose interest. There are plenty of pretty girls out there after all.

On the other hand if her boyfriend seems chill I might become friends with him if we have overlapping interests.

Dunno if I'm weird this way but jealousy hasn't really ever been something I've struggled with personally

[Anonymous]

Ah yes. With me, i always be her friend as best as I can and support her the best I can. Always be there for her n talk to her and laugh n cry with her. And don't take sides especially if she's venting and her boyfriend. Also maybe let her know or talk to her and tell her I like her and no matter if we're in a relationship or not that Im always there for her and want her to be happy. That usually helps when you establish that or vent that to her. Im aware its different for everyone but thats how it is for me or what I naturally do.

[HighlyVolatile]

I never crushed on girls who were taken and lost my crushes on girls who got taken. The moment they told me they were taken, or I saw them taken, it's like my fantasies ended right then and there.

[chulo1992]

I had a crush on this hot mama that had a man. I didn't give a shit, I just loved being in her company. And of course everytime she would complain about him not treating her right, I would be thinking "Today might be the day she will fall in my arms" SADLY IT NEVER HAPPENED.

[ohshee]

You gracefully look deep into her eyes let your eyes do the talking put your head down and walk away there's nothing you can do about it and you don't want to do anything about it because she's dating somebody else you have to respect that

[Kaneki05]

I tell them I cannot be friends with them because I have a crush on them. I get jealous so it wouldn't be healthy for me to stay around while she's happily kissing him and etc meanwhile I am just wishing that was me.

[StonePup]

Honestly, kinda poorly. Not in an outward or jealous way but I definitely get a bit sad about it but hey what can you do. If it's gonna happen it'll happen.

[IMuser]

I give up. It's not a respectable thing to yearn for someone who is already committed.

[MrJMM]

Is probably not have a crush on a girl like that because I know how’s in a relationship or not. Besides crushes are so stupid no wonder I kinda gave up a long time ago.

[KeithLane]

There were plenty. Never took it well but I did figure out there is always someone else who will come along when you are not looking and take your heart.

[TexasRed95]

Same as a crush on a girl that isn't in one. I just stay shy and quiet and keep my distance.

[KostasKouvalis]

Story of my life. Deep down I always hope that she will leave him for me

[tallcuck]

Either by sabotage or by putting her on check later list.

[Asker]

In what ways would you sabotage?

[tallcuck]

Pay a hoe to cheat with him for example. Send her the pics... But it is very cruel and malicious. I do not recommend doing such immoral things. My karma is fucked already. Wanna fuck yours?

[Jamie05rhs]

I don't have crushes on girls who are in relationships. Taken is taken.

[jahaims]

I wouldn't have feelings for someone who isn't available

[Anonymous]

Guys here would probably kill the Boyfriend , problem solved

[Asker]

Guys where? On this app?

[Opinion Owner]

sure, I guarantee you there are murderers , rapists and a bunch of pedophiles on here.

[Asker]

OMG that’s too much for me

[Tyson_Reckford]

Not very well, it usually ends badly.

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

I think he shud leave you alone

[Asker]

Why we are only friends?

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

I mean.. if he is making moves yes but being just friends is ok ofc

[Asker]

He isn’t making moves. We are just friends but sometimes I think I feel a vibe.

[Raperonzolo_Viv]

then just go as friends; no problem

[Twalli]

I don't try to pursue anything

[Anonymous]

I move on and lose interest, it's that simple.

[TrillXHippy]

Can’t do anything about it but move on

[Guy13]

WTF, MAN-UP ‼️

[Asker]

Huh?

[rabbitzzz]

Sing sad songs.

[driven159]

I don't move on