What is the oldest you'd date?

[Anonymous]

Recently, I seem to be agnetic to cougars. This lady who started speaking to me says she's 38 but looks about mid-50s who had work done and still wants to love, kids, and othet fairy tail b. s.

[TenderFantasy]

That's mean. It's not like they could control their age.

She has every right to want that stuff. I hope someone can still give that to her.

[Asker]

Lol it's not mean to want that, it's mean to have a good run and use someone who's barely had a chance for a second run 🤨

[TenderFantasy]

You're just full of assumptions aren't you. You don't even know what her dating history was like and how she became 38, no kids, or whatever. For all you know, she should have been with her husband for 20 years and that was her first but he died. You really shouldn't assume so much bad.

[Asker]

If you say so. You're assuming her life story, and I'm full of assumptions. Get your head out of your ass

[Hotmodelwloser]

Omg what about 32 weeks of chances of runs lol

[LiamJHayden]

I normally date 5-10 years older, but have dated women over 50. I am not passing up on an awesome lady just because she's older. Also, my mom was almost 45 when I was born so I don't get that "Almost my mom's age." vibe from women that age.

[Billlewis]

It's not her age, but her rage, that draws me like a moth to her page, and if she deigns to find convenient ways to serve her well, I may just be the guy whose days she makes a living hell;)

[PeachyPie93]

42 is oldest I'd go. Guys loose sex drive and are boring. Plus they get that old man pudge on the belly and it's gross lol.

[Asker]

Imagine how would this sound if I said it as a male 🫣

[PeachyPie93]

What you said sounded pretty offensive too saying a lady that is 38 doesn't deserve love and family lol

[PeachyPie93]

Unless you didn't mean it in a hash way, well then yeah I am just an asshole lol. But I never really been into older guys too much and especially now that I am getting up there in age.

[Asker]

Where did you get she doesn't deserve love from... she can do what she likes. But you're may be an asshole who knows, saying old man pudge on the belly. A man can only dare to have preference before he's shamed.

[TenderFantasy]

Because you called her dreams and goals "B. S." lol. Get out of here. Trying to deny lol. You insult people for their age but yet women can't do the same with a guy's weight. Lol. Like i said, get outta here.

[PeachyPie93]

I guess because you said other fairy tale bs like it isn't reality and she won't get it. lol
Men say whatever they want about women on here, they don't usually get shamed especially when it comes to woman over 30 and fat woman lol.

[Asker]

It's b. s according to me, not according to her. She's entitled. The same way if a man wants what she wants, it comes with a price tag, not sympathy.

[PeachyPie93]

But aren't you like the same age? So how is she entitled? lol

[TenderFantasy]

How is she "entitled" just because she's 38 not 28? I really don't get that. People could be workoholics, could havae been very shy with men. She doesn't need your sympathy. Maybe understanding and respect if it's to ever work.

Plus, men have become so spoiled. They think they can land that 20 year old despite the fact that they have that beer gut or dad bod which is really strange and hypocritical honestly. Maybe THEY are the ones that are entitled if you think about it.

[Asker]

She ain't 38. You're all for women lol one narrative and thought pattern are typical.
You sound like a girl who grew with no daddy 😂
The question above is... read? I have my preference. Everyone does.

[TenderFantasy]

So if she checked all the boxes in your dream world of what a woman would be, except for her age, you'd still say no? What if a woman did that to you? How would that make you feel? !

[Asker]

Are you on drugs 😳 lol. Men have preferences too, deal with it. Nothing is by force. I'd reject a female that is not fit for what I'm looking for in any age. Never mind someone 20 years older

[PeachyPie93]

So how come I am not allowed to not want to date pudgy guys over 42? lol

[TenderFantasy]

I wasn't trying to force you but you shouldn't also feel hurt if someone you really liked or was attracted to you rejected you for something silly or something you couldn't control.

You said you knew she was lying and she wasn't really 38, then what were you doing talking to her and leading her on? Not very matured of you to do.

[Asker]

Seriously, do you selectively read, or you need your eyes tested? lol dating is a choice but dissing a guy like you don't bleed once a month is delusion

[Hotmodelwloser]

Omg only some and 1 is like the weirdest ever and such a turn off

[Hotmodelwloser]

It’s gross if ur body is perfect f him
He has no rite lol

[Avicenna]

About 60. Maybe 65 if she's in good shape.

[Anonymous]

Probably 50s. 60s if he's seriously rich. Well... If he's crazy rich I'll date regardless of age, since if he's old he'll die sooner and I'll get the inheritance to then take a more genuine relationship.

[Asker]

Some naive girls here would tell you that's mean if you were a male saying the above lol

[Opinion Owner]

Lol I'm aware it's not an especially polite answer, but it is true. I've always said I'll marry for love or for money just depending on which opportunity presents itself to me first. I grew up poor. I'm not gonna pass up money when it's available to me.

[TenderFantasy]

Well congratulations on being a user like Anna Nicole lol. Hope you get what you seek.

[Asker]

Who? I'm not seeking lol hence why I'm being seeked. Ironic isn't it

[Opinion Owner]

@TenderFantasy Girl you're gonna insult a gold digger by comparing her to a gold digger? I got no problem being compared to Anna Nicole.

[Asker]

@tenderFantasy is naive. You can date for wealth. "Love" has always been conditional in respect.

[Tim2nice]

How rich does one have to be? I’m fairly rich and 45 years young. Do I qualify?

[Opinion Owner]

@Tim2nice Depends on how far 'fairly rich' is gonna get me. And if you're someone I could get along with or at least not mind. And if you lived anywhere near to me. I'd kinda have to know you to know if you'd qualify.

[Hotmodelwloser]

My ex or boyfriend or whatever preferred 46!/‘d 350 lbs lololol disgusting yet he is all into hot clothes and wild stuff there’s more than looks but that’s beyond nasty lol

[RebelinSteel]

Never really thought about it, I have usually dated my age or so and younger. A lot would depend on how we got on together

[HawkPerception]

I'd probably say 50 at this point. There are some dangerously attractive 50 year olds out there that keep in shape. As long as they have chemistry with me, I'm in for it.

[IslaTheWitch]

I date mind not a birth certificate. If he is smart and witty, and there is chemistry between us... who would check the age ffs?

[Zestyassmf1997]

36 would be the absolute maximum, and she’d have to be a total smokeshow.

[Apple1996]

My max would be 27. I wouldn't date anyone older than me

[Anonymous]

Probably 45 would be the oldest I would date

[brightpapaya]

45. Yes I know 20 years older than me is a lot, but there are some really good looking older men out there, who still take care of themselves and stay in shape ;) That's the ones I'm talking about.

[Tim2nice]

That’s my age

[Asker]

Bruh, your problem may not be money, but you're too famn keen. There are more women than men in the world. Stop chasing, women's tell you themselves they hate easy men. Just chill, and take care of yourself - there is never gonna be a shortage of women any time soon.

[brightpapaya]

Er... not sure this was meant for me but I'm a woman?

[more_than_a_guy]

Around 50s if she looks good. But for a marriage I'd say up to late 30s or early 40s.

[laly520]

oldest was 28 if I recall well

[Anonymous]

I'm 42 ... so I won't date anyone over 32 ..

[Sparkie460]

The oldest I'd date is 65

[4ngelic]

for me 25

[Twalli]

10 years older than me

[Anonymous]

Maybe 60's.

[Anonymous]

Probably 40.

[KittygosMeoWW]

40…..

[tierrlamé]

18 to 49 women.

[serenalovesramen]

450 years old

[Roudyrebel8]

40's

[Anonymous]

I'll say 50