What's the oldest that you would date?

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What's the top age that you would date? Would you date someone a lot older and/or younger than you?

I could date someone younger as long as it's it's legal. Someone older too lol, to a reasonable extent (don't ask, no comment lmao)

aWes0MeNeSs · Accepted Answer

I'm not looking to date at all at the moment, but if I were, I wouldn't want to date too much older because I'm not sure if it would feel right to me. I think my cutoff would maybe be early 30's, but it depends on the guy. If I happened to find a great match a bit older than that, I might reconsider.

I definitely wouldn't want to date much younger. I know people my age and even slightly older who date seniors in high school who are barely 18, and I could never do that. I mean, the life experience difference and the stages of life that both of those ages are at are pretty different. I would feel like I was dating a child if I were dating a senior in high school or a guy in his late teens, or really under 21. Not that I'm calling those guys children, but it would just feel that way because to me, 18-20 just feels pretty young for me.

Hurlyburly · Accepted Answer

I used to be in a relationship with a 30 year old when I was 19. But in retrospect it seems like too much of an age difference to me. So I'd say up to 5 years older, if I was looking for a new relationship that is.

ohshee · Accepted Answer

I'm 45 feel 25 very active so font really care about age but if they can keep up and enjoy doing the things I enjoy then age wouldn't matter I' have friends that are 20. To 60 years old there are some 20 year olds that are so wise who know who they are and our so before there time it's very beautiful and I know some 30 to 50 something who act as if there lost. But are happy who they are and some same age that don't want to stop experiencing new things or stop growing so I can't put a number on it so I guess from being legal to happiness and love of life,, what ever age that is

OlderAndWiser · Accepted Answer

In January, 2018 I had a date with a woman who was 82 years old. I then dated a woman who was 78 years old. Both of them were active, healthy, and attractive. Age is not the limiting factor.

Desconhecida · Answer

Sometimes age doesn't mean maturity or chemistry. Younger or older, if it feels right, it's right

Account · Answer

I have no time to invest in that.

19magic · Answer

I had a fling with a guy who was 15 years older and that was too weird, okay for short term but to meet the folks no good. Also dad dates 10 years younger so my 'stepma' (not actually married) is only 12 years older than me, but it was when he said his son was 4 years younger than me that I freaked a little

Galian84 · Answer

I've really only dated guys my age or older. The oldest I've dated was 19 years older. It didn't work out for other reasons, but the age difference didn't bother me all that much.

I prefer to date guys in their early 30s - early/mid 40s at this point in my life :)

glutendan · Answer

Younger is better but I briefly dated a girl 5 years older than me (I was 22 and she was 27). It wasn't a problem but she was at a lower maturity level for her age since she had medical issues.

I think it's dumb to pretend there is a specific cutoff. But I'm not likely to look for older when when younger ones are better most of the time.

letssee89 · Answer

I'd date someone as young as 21 (18 if it's understood to be very short term). As for my top end, I don't really have a limit as long as she isn't mentally old. I work with someone in her mid-late 60's, but is mentally younger that I would be happy to date. Meanwhile, there are people much younger than she is that act like they are 100. So, to me, it really would depend on the situation

alice55 · Answer

40 / 45 years old is the oldest I would date but only if he look young and good.  18 years old is the youngest I would date so long as he's attractive and mature.

Anonymous · Answer

Max 20 years older 20 years younger but realistically 10 and 10

Ayer93 · Answer

The half your age plus 7 rule works pretty well to find out what's socially acceptable by modern standards.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Current in relationship with 41 yr old. Previously i would have said younger as i wanted kids. I now have a son. I think casual dating i would go to 60, if right personality. For relationship, i'd say under 50

coveredinmaplesyrup · Answer

I'm 22 and the oldest I would date it's 30 years old, and the youngest I guess 19 but as long as it's legal and the guy it's mature (not with the mentality of a teen) I'm okay with it

hsshannah96 · Answer

I’m 23 and the youngest I’ll date is now 30. Guys younger aren’t mature enough.  the oldest is 35.

mindNsoul · Answer

I personally dont have an age range per say but maturity is everything.

suncookie · Answer

I'd date someone who was 4 years older than me at most and 1 year younger at least

TahoeHiker · Answer

I'll date till I die. And keep getting rejected in my afterlife. Thats why i won't be scared getting sent to hell. I was married for 13 years Hell will be like MAUI or CLUB MED  *** rip kennison***

AreWeHuman · Answer

I only really go for 3 years older or 2 years under, well at my current age anyway cause it would be weird to date a 16 or even 17 year old tbh.

Hannah_98 · Answer

I’d probably only date someone up to 27/28ish. Honestly, I don't know if it could date someone more than a few months younger than me 😅

WalterBlack · Answer

I'm 39. My ideal age range for a partner is 29-39. But I would expand that to 22-42 for the right person.

fauchelevent · Answer

Right now, my age range would probably be about 20 to 30.

Bluebell17 · Answer

60 for me but it boils down to their personality and chemical attraction

Chanel1981 · Answer

There are exceptions to the "rule" but I think a 10 year age gap is a good rule of thumb

thegirlfromthething · Answer

At 18, a 23-year-old. But in my twenties I’d be willing to go decades older.

SoWhAt249 · Answer

Maybe a year older than me tops. I'm not really into that.

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nope. You can reject someone for any reason you want.

MissDawn7961 · Answer

I would date a man 4 years younger and 4 years older then me ! Thanks

Ashesh123 · Answer

I would love to date a girl who is elder to me. But, just 1-4 years elder.

ConfusedKid101 · Answer

Oldest? Four years older is as far I'll probably go.

aicarg · Answer

My age range is, no older than 4 years, not younger than 2 years.

Liam_Hayden · Answer

I have dated as old as 41. Not sure what the oldest would be. It would depend upon the woman. I mean, Liz Hurley is 30 years and 3.5 weeks older than I am, but I would not turn her down.

sewyseal_ · Answer

One year older at max, two years younger as a minimum

worldscolide · Answer

I won't date someone who is older than me.. I prefer my age or younger... My wife is 9 years my junior for example.

jamesgoldman · Answer

Younger... not at this point  Older... I've been up to 2 years but could double my age if it was right

OGxtra · Answer

I tend to lean towards dating younger myself but I think that if the circumstances were good someone my age would be sufficient !

Twalli · Answer

I do 1/2 my age +5 for youngest. That adds up to 9 years younger. So I also go 9 years older. My preference is a girl turning 34 on January 15, but I am dating her so that could be why.

ElissaDido · Answer

30 is the oldest I'd date.

Ian849 · Answer

As long as there's a good connection then I have no upper age limit and no younger than 20

Ripper_E · Answer

The youngest would be 18, but extremely unlikely. The oldest would be 35ish.

lovedejj_xo · Answer

I don’t have an age range. Only thing I don’t like is dating guys younger than me.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm 23. I could date someone 8 years older as long as he still attractive. xd

ness11 · Answer

I guess age doesn't count as long both like each other

Dnice1 · Answer

5 years older that's the max for the oldest and 1 year younger

Exorcist_Rampage · Answer

Probably up to 55 if she is sweet enough. Just like Sammy Hagar can't drive 55, I can't date women past 55.

compdude · Answer

I dated several women younger than me. But they had to be up to a mental level that could adjust to the difference in age. And they usually benefitted from the relationship.

joethemoe912 · Answer

Max is 30 for me and thats pushing it for me honestly lol

that_one_chick · Answer

3 years older is all I will go although I’ve tried 6 before but won’t do that again so only 3

AntiHunger · Answer

My range right now is 3 years older.  When I’m 20, 18 - 25

KittyMilk · Answer

If she got money she could be 90 lol here baby Poland spring water for your teeth tonight daddy treat you good huh

AlphaBot · Answer

Hard to answer because we live in a time where there are 40 yr olds who look 70 and vice versa.

i_am_tbjxii · Answer

I’m not single. But if I was the oldest would be 24 and youngest 19.

A__435 · Answer

The oldest I would date is 40 but u have to be really handsome for me to date u

Xyline789 · Answer

I think I'd date at most 6 years younger to my age.

Nikki1998 · Answer

Oldest be 10 years. Not into younger plus most get me 20 years.

makeumwet76 · Answer

When I was in high school I dated my friend's sister I was 14 and she was 24

feastguy101 · Answer

33. I just turned 30. I know it looks harsh, but I want kids. Ideal dating age would be 28-30.

Anonymous · Answer

Honestly 30 but i dont mind 40 too if he doesn’t look his age, in shape plus no baggage

chriscdi · Answer

like 28 but fuck can go much higher 😂

Hermine · Answer

37. But I won't. It's wrong

TsundereMatrix · Answer

Probably no older than 35.

Daisy007 · Answer

The oldest i'd go up to is 23 right now 😅🤷‍♀️

Curlybrunette111 · Answer

I’m 19. I’d say the max is 30 yo.

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