Does anyone else have problems finding more casual relationships?

[lungcapacitor]

The relationship game is really difficult these days. Either everyone wants to just stay single and focus on themselves or they want something super committed right away. It’s been a while since I’ve even had a relationship because I’m just looking for something casual. Friends to kinda hangout and talk and maybe have some sexual fun here and there. Get to know people more before I just jump into something committed with them. It’s not even like I’m an ugly guy or anything. It’s just pretty hard to find someone with the same relationship goals in mind.

[bobalife]

Is it? It’s the hook up cultural era for many lol. It’s easy, you can just use tinder by making a catchy bio and state you’re looking for causal, post good pics, and be fun on chats lol. Don’t be pushy though. Go to a bar and talk to solo women by herself.

[Nikki1989]

I am approached at least once a week, every week, but I am married, so I have to send them packing, so I don't see any problems.

[lungcapacitor]

Did you date casually before you were married?

[Nirmroth]

And here I am thinking to many girls seek only something casual.

I guess its just a matter of perspective and were you are located.

[lungcapacitor]

Most women I ever met either want to stay single and focus on their careers or they want to be engaged to you in a few months. I’ve had a real struggle finding a happy medium.

[Nirmroth]

Thats wild knowing you're 23 about the jumping to engagement but like I said seems like to be a location issue.

Are talking about meeting irl or dating apps aswell? Bec on dating apps you basically mostly only find those who are down for either rl or casual.

[lungcapacitor]

Yeah most of the girls around my age are either just coming out of college and want to focus on a career or they have been in the workplace for a few years and want to settle down to have a family. I am from a more rural area though so this may factor in some.

I have tried a few dating apps. A lot of people say tinder is great for casual relationships, but literally none of the girls near me even responded when I would reach out to them. I think I’m kinda looking to keep things online for now and then maybe take it to in person too.

[Nirmroth]

Have you thought about dating 1-3 years below you to target said college girls?

Ye rural area factors more than you think. Liberal city girls are way more likely to date casually.

Dating apps for men is tricky, you have to work on your profile to stand out of the masses and then if you got a match not waste days texting but either plan a date in person or per phone call if she's shy within 1-3 days or they simply may loose interest or think you're not interested.