Guys, how much belly fat would be off-putting to you in a girl?

[Anonymous]

I've always been a bit insecure. I'm not fat, I don't spill over my pants or anything, but I'd describe myself as soft and I do have a bit of stomach fat.

[AaronKrieger]

None, but I prefer for her to have belly fat - it looks/feels nice to me and it's cute. I have always felt that way about it being very attractive to me.

As for other men, most will likely not care about it that much considering that most women do not have a flat stomach, so you'll be fine. If any do, then it doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you, but that you are both incompatible.

[Lliam]

I don't care for lean women and hate it when they have visible abs. I think women are supposed to have subcutaneous fat and feel soft.
I prefer some padding on her tummy as long as her stomach looks flat when she is standing.
Muffin tops are super sexy.

[Asker]

Huh, interesting. The male gaze is sure unpredictable.

It's nice to hear a different perspective from the mainstream though

[Lliam]

Thank you for the MHO. :-)

[Billlewis]

It would be almost impossible for her to be too chubby.

[Zestyassmf1997]

Depends on the rest of her proportions, honestly.

[Asker]

Can you elaborate a little?

[Zestyassmf1997]

Well if she has large breasts and a big ass, then really, who cares about her stomach, unless it’s enormous?

[jahaims]

Everyone is different

[rebeliouse]

kate winslet in titanic is perfect

[Asker]

Interesting, because I heard she faced severe fat-shaming in that movie.

[rebeliouse]

who from not me or most men
be careful who you listen to most of the time media is not reflective of the real world read between the lines

look at kate now she looks bony horrible

[rebeliouse]

dm me think would be nice to chat to you

[Asker]

Nah, it was from men too

[rebeliouse]

and do you believe them?

[Asker]

I think she was very pretty. But I'm also pretty steeped in the typical 'male gaze' so I've kind of been ingrained to think you can only be sexy if you're skinny. Or if you're not skinny, then you have to be hourglass. 🤷‍♀️ I'm trying to build a healthier body view but it's hard when that's all I've seen getting appreciated all my life.

[rebeliouse]

dm me lets chat

[Anonymous]

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