How do you assess my opinion that I dislike very tall men and I have never been attracted to them or interested in them?

[Usersarepoo]

Women with a learning disabity and my height is 4'11" and I have not been interested in any very tall men that are over 6ft. I prefer short men and have been more attracted to guys that have been shorter than me. I find tall men too intimidating and I had bad experience with some that were very taller than me and some were from college. One did ask a sexual question that I didn't want to answer and did make me uncomfortable. I only asked one tall man out by writing a letter to him but did get rejected by him and was in high school. Another tall man from college did cheat in previous relationship and I was the one that did ask for information. He said he was too old for me then OK and then sent mixed signal. I did block these guys and only see very tall men as just friends or tall men as just friends. The last tall men that was from online and did keep saying this one do you want to date a tall men like me over and over. Yep, I did send no and I did block him. How do you assess my opinion that I dislike very tall men and I have never been attracted to them or interested in them?

[abc3643]

Your desires are interesting - definitely not the norm, but that doesn't make you a pervert or weird.

This, in particular, is intriguing:
" I prefer short men and have been more attracted to guys that have been shorter than me."

First, how tall are you?
And, second, do you __prefer__ men shorter than you?
And, if so, why do you suppose you prefer men shorter than you?

[abc3643]

Sorry, I see that you are 4 foot 11 inches tall, so I know the answer to the first question.

[Usersarepoo]

ok and i had not be interested or bee attracted to very tall men since they are going to have more option for women and bad experience with some tall men. ok with avenge height men near my height that ok. i also has be rejected by one a tall men. emitted tall men that i got from online dating.

[abc3643]

Can you answer these?

"Do you __prefer__ men shorter than you?
And, if so, why do you suppose you prefer men shorter than you?"

[Usersarepoo]

I thought I did give you two answer. got rejected by a tall men and bad experience with some other tall men. my height is short for women in UK and USA.

[abc3643]

So, "the shorter the man is, the better he is" because he is less likely to reject you or give you a bad experience?

[JHAYES317]

Uh in the USA, the mean height is 5’9 1/2”, so actual short men (bottom 2%) are 5’3” and under, and 6’1” - 6’3” is above average but not tall, tall is top 2% like 6’4”+. So I assume what you mean is you like to date average height men, which is 5’7” - 6’0”, not below average (5’4” - 5’6”) or short (5’3” and below)

[Usersarepoo]

Yet I'm from UK not from USA and I don't like men that are tall.

[JHAYES317]

UK is about the same as the U. S. height wise…so these stats would be about the same.

[Usersarepoo]

So that is no chance of short men that are saying then. Only chance with stupid tall men.

[JHAYES317]

What no I’m not saying that…I’m just telling you that 5’7” - 5’11” men are average not short…

[Usersarepoo]

That still going to be tall then me.

[JHAYES317]

Ok but that’s not short is my point

[incorrected]

It's just a preference I suppose. Can you think of any reasons for it, or is it just a simple lack of attraction with no particular reason?

I'm 6ft 1in and I could imagine the mechanics of all kinds of things would perhaps be strange.

[Usersarepoo]

first one is too intimidating and i did had bad experience with some tall men in college to. i did put my height in my detail and I'm 4'11 .

[Berethor]

How could you? tall men look more masculine, sounds like you was unlucky.

[Usersarepoo]

I'm not interested of men being masculine

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't. Your life, your men, your preferences. Why should I assess anything?

[Usersarepoo]

i'm not lookinng for women opioion i know they hate short men

[Usersarepoo]

opinion

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't hate, I don't judge, I don't assess

[laly520]

I mean its ur own preferences

[Usersarepoo]

i know that.