Anyone else dislike tall men >than 6'1 or men who stare when they're locked into a conversation with them?

[Anonymous]

I'm a 5'7 big woman, but when taller men see me I'm either cute or flirtatious.
I think that my eyes are a little seductive already, but I think from their view, it's even more so.
When they look down at me I feel like a piece of meat. In general i feel like I get 3 type of eyes from guys
1. Work eyes (usually from strangers going about their business or uninterested guys )
2. Friendly eyes (usually by customers service men and old men)
3. Conquer Her eyes (i feel like male friends jump between friendly eyes and these eyes)(men who i engage with for the 1st time or who are interested in me give me these eyes)
My guy friends say I look squishy
It doesn't help that I have love handles and a chubby face. Guys stay trying to hold my hand after I give them a high five. I've met too many tall men with a tight grip and that look in their eyes. I do admit, I feel inferior around them.

[Berethor]

6'1 is almost your male equivalent, men are 5 inches taller than women on average.

https://www.worlddata.info/average-bodyheight.php

[Asker]

6'1 is pushing it

[Anonymous]

I'm 6'3" but I don't stare. I have a hard time getting comfortable on airplanes or in public seating, and I bump my head on things a lot. But generally my height has been an asset in dating.

[Asker]

That's because girls were taught to like tall men, but im not like them. Even if you're not staring, I don't want to be looked down at.

[Opinion Owner]

Girls are not taught to like tall men any more than they are taught to like confident men. It's genetic and based on thousands of years of evolution.

[Asker]

How would you know
Girls were influenced to be moms and wives, too
However, with more money opportunities, technology, and independence, we're learning to see through all that propaganda and deciding if we really want to be a mom or wife within society

[Asker]

Women never set up the standard
Men did
If you were a short, boys would have picked on you anyway, and any girl that liked you would have been bold to go against the status quo, but since
Women have more freedom
We get to pick our own standards
and the propaganda we were fed like that "men supposed to pay for the first date or men are providers
crap. " Women can go against mainstream thinking with less negative feedback

[Opinion Owner]

LMAO, are you really naive enough to believe all the nonsense you just wrote there? All I can say is I hope you are not actually as old as your profile says.

None of what you wrote has anything to do with women being biologically more attracted to taller men. You can choose to date shorter guys is you want, or whatever your preference is, but that won't change the fact that women in general are most attracted to taller men. It's biological and codded in their DNA.

[Nikki1989]

Staring is rude, and most men 6 feet or over are freaky giants to my eyes.

[spartan55]

Pro tip

[spartan55]

Don't give guys high fives... just no.

[Asker]

Why?

[spartan55]

Because it looks like you are trying to gain entrance into the Guy's Club and come off as try hard.
When is the last time you saw two women high five outside of say a sporting event? Almost never.
Another example:
Pink Anon: "I'm going to my girlfriend's to try on dresses today after work."
Spartan55 (excitedly) Really? I've been wanting to do that for months, I'm going with you.
You would look at me like I had lost my mind.

[Asker]

I'm definitely not trying
I don't raise my hand first
They walk up to me with their arm ready for a fist bump or hug
And when they raise their hand, I raise my hand to say hi, and they connect it to make it a high five and then keep holding it like we're walking together

[spartan55]

They sound like middle school level maturity. Do what you want.

[Asker]

You don't greet people?

[spartan55]

Of course, different greetings for different people and different situations. I don't try to hold anyone's hand either.

[Asker]

Ok, I'll give you that. I usually get the fist bumps and hugs from guy friends
The hi turned hand holding come from guys I really haven't spent time with but seen around and they want to talk to me more
It's definitely awkward
I had a couple guys hold my hand and tell me how soft it is 🤢 of course, I slithered my hand out their grip, but it's harder when their hands are bigger

[MasterKS]

I'm a 5'7 big woman, Thats sexy.