There's a woman I work with that I find incredibly attractive. should I ask her out?

[Sevenpointfive]

how would i work up the nerve to do something like this? i've had beautiful women, but it doesn't ever get easier. i mean aren't you basically asking to sleep with someone?

[ChefPapiChulo]

It really really depends how you ask and if there are any signs that she wants you to ask. You can easily find yourself in a lawsuit if you don't navigate social cues currently, which is fucking weird by the way. Imagine men having to be afraid asking a girl out, fucked up world we live in.

[Sevenpointfive]

what's funny is the first time i saw her i knew. but that's in my mind

[ChefPapiChulo]

the way i do it is just like, hey want to get something to eat after work? or weekend. if she's into it, she's into it ig.

[Sevenpointfive]

that doesn't really work in my field. but maybe i could make it work? i haven't even introduced myself. it's a lot to go into but the tension is there.

[slatyb]

Of course you should. She's probably doesn't think she's all that.

[Sevenpointfive]

i hope i find the courage to do it. she's so hot

[slatyb]

Courage? Just be polite, and if she declines, don't ask again.

[Sevenpointfive]

ok. tbc

[NathanDavis]

don't

[Sevenpointfive]

yeah. i guess i won't

[Jamie05rhs]

Lmao. I've seen that sign.

[Jamie05rhs]

No, you aren't basically asking to sleep with someone.
... But they always take it that way. 🤦🙄😑

[Sevenpointfive]

but i only want to sleep with her one time

[Jamie05rhs]

@Sevenpointfive Why?

[Sevenpointfive]

i was just kidding. she's a good woman. i wonder if she'd work out. i'm just so judgmental to the point of pushing everyone away.

[Jamie05rhs]

Oh, okay; cool. I gotchu.

[Jamie05rhs]

Your sense of humor is so slick that people don't realize when you're kidding, and I fall for it too easily. Haha

[Sevenpointfive]

isn't that the beauty of it though? i think it makes even more funny when i have to say i'm kidding

[Jamie05rhs]

Lol. Yeah

[getwiththepg]

You shouldn’t. Work relationships are a bad idea.

[Sevenpointfive]

i never said i want a relationship