Has you’re overall experience dating the opposite gender been good or bad?

[MLGbreezy]

I’ve just been thinking about a recent experience I had with someone we never even dated just the beginning stages of some heavy flirtation. But things ended poorly even more so cause we were close friends. But I think the part that hurts more than anything is all the promises the plans to stick by each other and spend time together just to be so easily discarded especially knowing this persons previous dating history and the chances they face to done shitty people. Knowing I put in so much time and effort for nothing it sucks. Then I think about my overall experiences and just how it just hasn’t really been a fun time in dating at least for me in terms of searching for love. Just a whole lot of empty promises that’s how I’d describe my dating experience that and disappointment. Definitely not saying this all the girls fault tho sometimes the writing is on the wall before hand the red flags. But I don't know I’m all about giving someone opportunities maybe I’m just to naive to do some actual dating hell even after getting done dirty o still care for the girl that was my friend who has since tossed me aside. I wonder if she’s okay and how she’s doing mostly cause the last we talked she said she was going through some stuff I didn’t ask her about it then cause we were arguing. Sorry for the long post just needed to get my thoughts out.

[CozyCoffin]

At least those I've ended up dating, bad. Most just wanted a free meal while having a boyfriend, husband or some other arrangement and their partner approved. One that was genuine wanted me to change to suit her needs, including converting to her religion and going to church with her, all the while mentioning that on the first date. It's one thing if I wanted exclusivity and she had that as a prerequisite, or if I or she popped the question and had that for marriage. It's not acceptable in my eyes for a second date.

[MLGbreezy]

Interesting interaction

[incorrected]

Sounds like you're getting to be women's emotional dumping ground, but once you have needs they sod off and don't really care. Women who do that are toxic without knowing it, just ditch them and stop listening to their problems like a doormat in the friend zone.

[MLGbreezy]

Damn I knew I should’ve handled things differently I always find my self getting roped in by their sweet talk especially if we are already close I do think I’ve gotten better tho cause I usually have a side piece just in case things go wrong cause nowadays you can’t trust anyone fr

[Nikki1989]

All good except for one bad ex. I am still good friends with the rest of them.

[MLGbreezy]

Wow I’m acutely surprised you e had such a good dating experience what’s your secret?

[Nikki1989]

Choose wisely.

[MLGbreezy]

Could point Ig I’m to trusting even when it comes to dating friends you like

[MLGbreezy]

Know*

[incorrected]

Her secret is being an attractive young female, it's just a completely different psychological dynamic.

[Anonymous]

It's been a mixed bag for me, and learning experience. I've learned some important lessons about what types of women to avoid and what red flags to watch for. "Modern women" and those who are woke or feminist types are always a bad idea. They may appear to be normal and have their stuff together, but they are ugly on the inside, and thankfully I have learned to spot them earlier and avoid them.

[MLGbreezy]

Oh yeah those types are always the worst and there fake asf

[IslaTheWitch]

definitely positive

[Anonymous]

Mine have been good.