What am I doing wrong with women?

[Anonymous]

I never had a girlfriend before, i asked 22 girls for their numbers and 20 of the girls rejected me and 2 of the girls gave me their number, but it never led to any dates

Should i keep trying?

[Oliverlogan263]

Ay man, don't sweat it too much. Chasing girls is tough, especially when you're new to it. Here's some advice though -

- Asking for numbers right off the bat puts pressure on them. Try chatting for a bit first to let them warm up to you.

- Show you just wanna be friends at first, not come on too strong. Girls like a guy who's chill and listen without expecting anything.

- Work on your confidence, bro. Keep eye contact, smile more. Girls dig a dude who seems comfortable in his own skin.

- Widen your circle through friends. Meeting people you already have a connection with through others makes it easier.

- Don't take the rejections personally, man. Everyone has different taste - doesn't mean you're not good enough.

I'd say keep at it, but adjust your approach some. Also try meeting girls through shared hobbies or clubs so you got more to talk about. And don't just hit them up for dates - build real friendships too. You got this dude, just gain more experience!

[Anonymous]

Do you keep a record of people you have talked to?

Weird.