We FaceTime multiple times a day and text pretty much all day long back and forth. We’ve been talking for almost 4 months. After he gets home from work, we only text. But we still text non stop until bedtime. Is this a red flag? We’ve never talked on FaceTime or the phone after he’s gotten home. But we have been on FaceTime numerous times when I am at my home. I have trust issues and overthink because of a previous relationship. I just wanted some non biased opinions from people who don’t know me.
So I know my opinion might be meaningless I'm young and stupid I'm going to go about this from friend aspect I had the situation with my friends. We love each other not in like a weird way we just really care about each other we do text and FaceTime a lot because we live kind of far it's like a gaming group. I would say that's fine just like be careful when we all wanted to meet up we did it at a event called twitchcon which is a huge event filled with people keep that in mind then again it's so different between dating and friendship.
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This is my personal opinion but most men dont like FT it gets annoying. The only reason he is doing it is because he likes you and its possible that during the day he is on the move so doesn't mind calling/FT but once he gets home maybe he just wants to relax so he doesn't feel the need to call/FT plus if you guys already do it all day does it have to be all night too?
FaceTime and texting are both red flags. It is a pointless dead end.
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That's very strange. Also that you apparently haven't met him after all that time.
Could be a couple of things; he has a woman and you're his escape plan. Not saying fo sho that's it but it's possible. Maybe, he's truly really busy. Try asking him out for a cup of coffee. That's noncommittal, and if he doesn't say yes, that is a red flag. Maybe he's somewhat introverted and is having trouble navigating the situation. I don't know for sure, but asking him out is your best bet if you're actually interested in him
Totally a red flagperiod. He has a girlfriend. Or a wife at home. He doesn't want her to know are u
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