I’ve texted with a guy daily for almost 3 weeks. We’ve exhanged daily like 1-2 texts. He often replies to me hours later. Why?

[Anonymous]

Should I be worried? For example I replied to his texts that he sent me 1pm last night tpday at 3 pm. He replied to me at the end of the day 11pm.

[HollyK21]

To me, the goal should be less texting and more in-person interactions. I think the real red flag is that he hasn’t invited you to hang out or do something yet. Unless he has, then don’t worry. But if not then you should ask about it.

[Asker]

He suggested playfully meeting ” if I ever come to your neighborhood, would you be my guide and show me places “

[HollyK21]

Hmm, the nature of that comment sounds to me like he isn’t looking for anything serious. “If I ever come to your neighborhood”, that’s not a solid plan, nor is there an inquiry about meeting up.

[serious]

Okay, so that is fine. I don't think he is taking too much time to reply. Maybe he was occupied with some work so he replied when he was free.

[Asker]

He said that he wad very busy this past weekend: I wonder why hasn’t he asked me out yet?

[serious]

Maybe he gets shy and nervous when it comes to asking you out.

[Asker]

It just makes me frustrated lol

[serious]

Okay

[spartan55]

You should be worried that you aren't getting to know him in person.

[BarryLiverstone]

No reason to be worried. He’s a chat buddy

[Asker]

So you don’t think he’s interested?

[BarryLiverstone]

Nope. Ask another guy out

[Asker]

Why do you think so?

[BarryLiverstone]

Because other guys must find you attractive

[Asker]

But why do you think that he isn’t interested?

[msc545]

Maybe he is busy or sleeping.

[Asker]

What do you think about us texting daily for almost 3 weeks?

[msc545]

nice but so what?

[Asker]

Does it show interest?

[msc545]

I think it certainly does.

[Asker]

But why hasn’t he asked me out?

[msc545]

Why haven't you asked him out?

[Asker]

I feel unwanted, desperate and pushy if I have to ask guys out myself

[msc545]

Now you know how men feel. We don't like it either.

If you want to go out with him, ask him OR just keep doing nothing and hope he will do something some day.