Why would a guy keep texting me on and off?

[Anonymous]

A guy was asking me on a date for 3 years but I didn’t want a relationship and was too busy so kept declining him.

We got talking again and he asked me on a date. I was less busy and thought “why not” so went on the date. We both got very drunk and had sex.

It turned out we weren’t compatible relationship wise, but there was strong physical connection (sex was good and we both are very physically attracted to eachother. We just couldn’t work it out as he didn’t want me seeing other men but would use tinder and he would go out drinking and be too hungover to see me.

I told him multiple times I didn’t want it to go further and we argued a few times, so we agreed to stop it.

Although, he keeps texting me when he’s h*rny and asking to see me.

Why does he keep doing this?

Updates

1 y

Okay, so I did block him before and he found me on another social site, and we both agreed to stop seeing eachother

[HollyK21]

So basically why does he keep asking for sex from you, and the answer is now that you’ve given it up, he will always think there’s another chance. He will either stop once you ask him to, once he doesn’t want it with you anymore, or once he finds someone else.

[HollyK21]

If you have him blocked then how’s he still contacting you?

[Asker]

He found me on another social media site and messaged me on there

[Oliverlogan263]

Ughh this dude sounds like nothin but trouble, girl. Textin you outta the blue whenever he's horny? Nah that ain't cool. Dudes will do whatever they can get away with, so he's hittin you up thinkin you'll just come runnin whenever he wants some ass.

But you made it clear you ain't down for that mess no more. It's messed up he keeps tryna ignore your boundaries. He gotta respect what you say, not just when it's convenient for him.

Honestly it sounds like you dodged a bullet by not makin it official with this clown. He just wanna have his cake and eat it too while tryna control you. You deserve way better than bein his booty call option.

I'd say keep him blocked everywhere. If he somehow finds another way to hit you up, don't even reply - just straight to block without acknowledgin his ass. Sooner or later he'll get the message you ain't the one to play with. Your time is worth too much for his games, feel me? Keep doin you, girl, and forget about that jabroni!

[quickquesocheese]

i think you pretty much answerd your own question. he's texting you when he is horny and he would like to have sex. have you tried blocking his number? i honestly think its rude of someone to text somebody they have dated ( and then decided not to because they are not compatable) to just want to have sex.