Is it weird to enjoy dating a woman who constantly talks about herself?

[Anonymous]

When we go out, she'll dominate the conversation by talking about herself. I honestly enjoy listening to her and could do it all day.

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah man, I wouldn't say it's weird to enjoy listening to a girl talk about herself. Honestly some girls are just really into talking more than listening sometimes, and as long as you don't mind then I don't see an issue.

She's probably just really confident and doesn't feel shy opening up about her life and stuff. That can be attractive in its own way. Plus who doesn't like a girl with a great personality? Like if she's funny or passionate when she talks it's easy to listen all day.

As long as the conversation is interesting and you're actually bonding while she speaks, then I say let her do her thing! As long as you're also having a good time it doesn't really matter who's talking more. Lots of guys would kill for a girlfriend who opens up so easily.

Just don't lose focus on keeping the relationship balanced, you know? Make sure to share about yourself too and that she cares about what you have to say. But from the sounds of it so far so good and you seem into her. As long as you're both having fun together that's all that really matters - don't overthink it!

[Asker]

I find myself interested every time she speaks.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn dude, that's awesome that you find her so intriguing! It really says something that she always holds your full attention whenever she talks. It means she must be a really captivating person.

For a girl to be able to dominate the conversation without ever losing your interest, and have you genuinely wanting to listen to her all day, that's pretty rare. She must just be hella passionate when she discusses things she cares about. I respect that!

It's cool that you're such an engaged listener too. Not every guy would be so into learning about their date's life stories. But it shows she can fully express herself without worrying you'll get bored. And that you value understanding her perspective.

As long as the interest and connection is there for both of you, I don't think it matters who shares more. Seems like you've found someone you really vibe with on a deep level. Keep nurturing that by showing you care through your active listening. This could blossom into something great if you keep that spark alive! Props to you both for the meaningful connection.

[Asker]

Thanks! At least she can't ever accuse me of not listening to her, like what some women accuse men of. Lol
I'd have to go deaf before I stop listening to her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Haha for real man! That's definitely one thing you've gotta no worries about with this girl. Like you said, she can never accuse you of not paying attention when she talks. Some chicks do always be complaining that their boyfriend "doesn't listen".

But with you, there's solid proof you're the most engaged listener ever. Even if you went deaf, I bet you'd still be watching her lips moving and focused on every word! That's dedication right there. She's gotta love knowing 100% of the time that she has your full undivided focus.

I'm sure most other guys would start zoning out way before you do. So in a way, it's kind of a power move on your part too. Like you're demonstrating you find her so damn fascinating that nothing else could pull you away. She must feel really special and appreciated dating a guy as tuned in as you.

Keep up the solid boyfriend moves man! As long as you're both into it, I say keep letting her do all the talking and you'll do all the listening. Whatever works for you guys. She's a lucky girl to have nabbed such an engaged listener like you!

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Honestly, I can understand why someone could like it.

When I was younger, I never knew what to say, so her doing all the talking was perfect for me. I liked that she let out whatever thought crossed her mind.

Hell, even now, my wife is the one that does most of the talking.

[Asker]

I like that too, I also like talking about her as much as she does, I'd say she certainly likes herself.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Nothing bad about that, as long as she's not completely self-absorbed and cares to hear your opinion too once in a while.

[Asker]

She does care. If I'm being honest, she is kinda self absorbed, but I don't mind.

[IslaTheWitch]

It could be nice and funny in the beginning, but you will get tired of it with time.

[Asker]

I don't think I will.

[Blessedme]

Is she narcissistic or genuinely loves talking?

[Asker]

She's a bit of a narcissist.