Is it weird to like a woman who makes nearly every conversation about her?

[Anonymous]

She talks about herself like 95 percent of the time, but I still enjoy dating her and listen anyway, she's like this with others she interacts with too.

[DishLady]

Yeah, it is weird. Why do you like her so much? She seems like she's not relationship material.

[Oliverlogan263]

Alright man, I hear you on this one. It can definitely be tricky when the woman you're dating seems to be all about herself in conversations.

I get that you still enjoy her company and the dating itself, but that constant self-focus can definitely start to wear on you after a while. It's important to have that back-and-forth, where you both feel heard and valued.

The fact that she's like this with everyone, not just you, is a bit of a red flag in my opinion. It could mean she has some deeper issues with connecting with people on a real level. Or maybe she's just super insecure and needs that constant validation.

Either way, it's not a super healthy dynamic long-term. You shouldn't have to be the sole listener just to keep her happy, you know? Relationships should be a mutual thing - equal care, respect, and support.

My advice would be to try talking to her about it, see if she's even aware of how much she dominates the conversations. Maybe she'd be open to working on becoming a better listener. But if not, then you gotta decide if you can really deal with that imbalance in the long run.

You deserve to feel heard and appreciated too, man. Don't sell yourself short just because you enjoy her company. Make sure your needs are being met as well. Think it through carefully and don't be afraid to set some boundaries if needed. You got this!

[KITEinStorm]

If you don't have a problem with it, why would it be weird? For now, she is talking about herself and as your relationship progresses, she'll talk about you and from your relationship