Guy asks you “what’s on your mind “ during a date…why lol?

[Chelsdope0]

I’m kind of shy but I don’t know how I feel about that lol

[kylee2437]

Dating takes two people putting in effort to get to know each other. He was probably hoping you would contribute to some of the conversation

[Chelsdope0]

Yeah I didn’t contribute.

[kylee2437]

That might be an issue , for anyone

[Chelsdope0]

True, I’m just not confident. I feel he’s possibly smarter than me

[kylee2437]

Just be yourself. Anyone that doesn’t stick around isn’t meant for you

[Chelsdope0]

Lol I think he was try to fck.

He also said some things that put me off. Like asking if my dad would approve of the pics I post.. like ummm

[ProbablyClueless]

Because he hates you... Because you're on a DATE. The purpose is to get to know you. What else is he supposed to do when you stare off into space and go silent?

If you're uncomfortable with the idea of someone you're trying to get to know, also getting to know you, I'm not sure that you're ready to date.

[Chelsdope0]

True, it was awkward. Yes I stared into space and I was quiet….

[Chelsdope0]

He hates me? Yikes

[ProbablyClueless]

The "hates you" part wasn't serious. I was just being sarcastic

[Chelsdope0]

He probably did lol

No second date

[Chelsdope0]

But I think I shut down bc I felt like he just wanted sx and he said something off putting about my pics.. asking if my dad would approve of them etc

[ProbablyClueless]

lmao he asked you if your dad would approve of your pictures? That's such a weird thing to ask someone.

[Chelsdope0]

Yeah ig bc I wear revealing clothes and I told him he used to be a pastor ig…

[ProbablyClueless]

Sounds like it was probably a bad fit. Hopefully your next match will be a more comfortable fit.

[Chelsdope0]

But why mention it if he knows that’s what he already saw

[Chelsdope0]

Why agree to a date to begin with

[ProbablyClueless]

Your guess is as good as mine, honestly. People do lots of counter productive stuff. Maybe he thought you might be different when he saw you in person? People have gotten so strange

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause we want to know what going on in that pretty head of yours

[Chelsdope0]

Pretty… ? Messed up maybe

[Bklynbadboy12]

Why do you say that

[Chelsdope0]

I just am

[Bklynbadboy12]

Now you got me curious

[Chelsdope0]

Curiosity killed the cat.

[Bklynbadboy12]

That is true that is absolutely true

[Nice222]

He was trying to get a conversation started.

[laly520]

maybe he wants to make u talk more

[noohair]

That is not a trick question.