Guys, boys... what are you actually thinking when you're in a relationship?

[n4ta1i3]

I have a range of different questions here, so please answer as many as you like;
- When you're in a relationship with a girl, do you often think of other girls?
- Do you get upset if a girl dumps you/do you get upset at the thought of this?
- If you see another girl who you find prettier/funnier, do you wish you were with them?
- Does all of this ^ depend on how much you like the girl you're with?

It's just..I'm in a relationship with a guy I'm absolutely crazy about. He's everything I could wish for, just ticks all the boxes basically. My only issues are with jealousy and yeah, he's a little bit of a flirt. But the worst part is his two best (girl and basically just best) friends are fricking models. They're f***ing gorgeous and I'm nowhere near as beautiful as them. They're also really lovely and funny and everything and I'm not saying this out of jealousy or awe, it's just facts. How can I stop being jealous? It's making me feel like our relationship won't last much longer now, because he's got a lot closer with them; they go to parties together and he invites them round for revision days and stuff..help?

[genuinlysensitive]

1. Yes, but not in the same way as when I was single. Maybe I think Oh she is attractive, but depending on how much I am into my girl, I don't really think of them as "OMG I wanna fuck her!" Its just Oh she is attractive, and move on.

2. As someone who has been dumped many times yes we do think about this a lot. Basically "How do I not screw this up?"

3. No we do not wish we were with other girls, and quite often girlfriends think they aren't as pretty or funny as they are. We think you are pretty/funny or we wouldn't be with you.

4. It does depend on how much we are into the girl, but if we are not happy with her we wouldn't be with her.

As for your guy, he as two model friends, but he is with YOU. You are obviously prettier and funnier than you give yourself credit for. As for the parties why not ask if you can come along as his plus one? Also what are revision days?

[AleDeEurope]

1) No. If I start thinking of other girls I will think about my relationship and what made me think of other girls. Something must be going wrong, and will very likely end up in a break up.
If I really like the girl I'm with, I won't think of other girls.

2) I've never been dumped, but I would feel upset if it ever happens.

3) No. There's a reason why I'm with the girl I'm right now, and just like with #1, if I do think of it, then there's a problem.

4) Yeah, like I said, if I'm really into the girl, or if I love her, I would never think of other girls, there's no reason.

About your jealousy problems, just remember he chose you. Those two girls are his best friends, which means they're close, and still, he chose YOU. Why would he choose you if he has two other better girls right next to him? That's right, because he thinks you're better than them.

[ArchDruidMordred]

- yes
- yes
- depends
- yes

[Klaatu51]

"damn my end of freedom..."

this bsically

[NiggaInTheField]

"Does she really like fat guys"

[James687]

yes
no
yes
yes