I wanna hear from the guys?

[Anonymous]

I want to hear from men who can tell me what are good indicators that a man has good, pure intentions with a female when it comes to dating and pursuing a relationship? What are some reg flag behaviors men use that us women could recognize before wasting too much of each others time?

[DoggyDude]

Red flags: Comes between you and friends, Is in a rush to become intimate, doesn't want any part of your family, abuses your emotions to make you uncertain, diminishes your opinions as silly.

Good indicators:

• Listens and importantly shows he is interested and cares about what matters to you
• Isn't in a rush, but does show discomfort if your with someone else who might compete / cause him to lose you (e. g. not overtly jealous, but shows signs)
• Discusses with you what your looking for in a future

[slatyb]

You can't tell until you've known them a while. Until then, don't invest more than you are willing to lose, don't de anything you will regret if the relationship ended.

[BonzoInBitburg]

He wants to know about you and your goals. A good man has goals and also wants to help you achieve yours.

[BarryLiverstone]

If you look back after a year or two you can better see how his intentions were pure

[BarryLiverstone]

Don’t wanna waste time? Ask him on a date next weekend. If he doesn’t show up then you know

[OtterMan68]

he doesn't pressure her into anything
he lets her make the moves
he is a gentlemen

[OtterMan68]

the first moves

[TheSpaceGnome]

Good indictator is wanting to be friends first and sharing your hobbies and interests and views.

[Anonymous]

😆😆😆 if you haven't figured this out by the age you are hun it's not going to happen now.