Meeting up for a first date. If everything goes well and the date stretches long, then ends in sex. How likely is a second date?

[DreamCrescent]

Or is the tone automatically set for friends with benefits, no chance for a real relationship

[bowenw]

I can only assume a date like that was very enjoyable for both, so the chances of a second date are very high.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[slatyb]

With me? Very likely.

[Truthatanycost]

Instead of asking this, you should instead know your own boundaries and be sure to enforce them. You can only control what you will, or will not do. But will anything good ever happen if we undermine that which has the ability to bring life into the world...

[DarkWinterNights]

Maybe 50/50. Depends on the guy. Sex on the first date to a guy usually means a relationship is out of the question. I have one friend that bucked the trend and ended up marrying her. But they divorced last year.

[DextroShade]

It depends on the guy, some guys might see a same day lay as recreational use only. The best thing you can do is find ways to add value outside of sex such as cooking for him or cleaning up his place.

[JayBones]

Zero. If I smash the first night you are trash and that's where you go. In the trash. Delete contact never talk to you again.

[noohair]

I am old fashioned, I don't think that way. If I want just sex, it is not a date for me.

[DreamCrescent]

but i didn’t say either just wanted sex. an actual first date that runs long and into the night and ends in sex

it’s right there in the question

[noohair]

I don't look for that on a first date, that is just me.

[moneymagnet24]

I had same experience n we're still friends with benefits

[DreamCrescent]

you’re saying you wouldn’t have pursued her romantically because sex happened on the first date?

[moneymagnet24]

Yes perfectly explained

[guyinterested]

good chance of second date

[CubaPirate]

Every chance