It’s basically convenience and a tick box exercise ☑️
Men are basically valued on how handsome they are, their status, how tall, how much money they have. Then last of all how nice is he.
It’s not real. It’s a questionnaire to eliminate 99.5% of men.
It might seem real to women because they are loved on their personality and cause the guy thinks she’s pretty. That’s it. So it’s real for women.