How do you act/feel when someone tells you they don’t like you? What do you say?

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How do you act/feel when someone tells you they don’t like you? What do you say?

superchan2011 · Accepted Answer

I usually just feel like I don't give a flying fuck if its a stranger. It it's say a mutual friend to another friend then I may start wondering why, but other than that I usually don't care.

NewgodOmega · Accepted Answer

I dont like you either over 8 billion people on this planet 99.99 percent people dont give a fuck about you

AviatorTom · Answer

I ignore them. It's their right and privilege to feel about me (and anyone else) any way they want. I'm not out to be liked by everyone.

RavVid · Answer

I think guys are a little more careful in what they say to other guys because if it is offensive it might be resolved with fists. Whereas girls are far less likely to sort it out with fisticuffs and so are more able to say offensive things to each other.

Obviously you are not going to be best buddies with everyone but I have not had a guy say they don't like me though it might be obvious we don't have any time for each other.

It would seem schoolboyish or gay to me if they did.

I have had girls say they don't like me but that has been when I have declined to take their side in a dispute with another girl. My reaction has been you are not manipulating me bitch.

alice55 · Answer

I would just say ok, I mean if it just come from out of the blue I would be very shocked (cause I usually assume people like me because I give no reasons for them to dislike them and I would have nothing else to say).

spartan55 · Answer

Depends on how contentious the situation is, also who the person is.. could be anything from "you think I gaf?" to "that's okay some people don't like me, I don't like some people"

IslaTheWitch · Answer

I don't think I was ever in such a situation with an adult. Some kids didn't like it when I pointed out to them that what they just did was wrong... But adults are too careful to openly say "I don't like you" :D

beebella · Answer

My niece is the only person who's ever said this to my face and she was just mad because I wouldn't let her do something. So, it meant nothing. 😂

MadhuriDixit · Answer

Good that they are honest, let's just ignore each other and live in peace

LavLavLuv · Answer

Hahaha

12karen · Answer

If you don't like me, it's your problem If I hurt your eyes, close them If I hurt your ears, close them Lol, jk It depends on who , but I'm more like, "oh, ok"

PBandJ_Nerd · Answer

I usually don't say anything. I might know they don't like me anyway.

AlexEfron · Answer

Depends. Generally, I'd ignore because they wouldn't matter to me as much either. Or else, I'll reply with something like - "I'm not trying to be liked by you"

PrettyCrumblBb · Answer

No one has ever told me they don't like me. I would assume that person is immature. Who straight out tells someone that? 😂

tierrlamé · Answer

I'd just say, "Alright I have nothing against you but you do you" and then move on with my day.

OtterMan68 · Answer

if it's a stranger on someone online, I don't care

Tstrbrainer · Answer

It's just cool.  Did somebody said that to you?  They're probably messing with you if they did

Ironco · Answer

I'm a gen x kid. They can go fuck themselves. Who cares, I say.

Fuentes · Answer

Nobody tells me that lol cause that's super suss lol

dragoblack · Answer

"Not sure why, i haven't done or said anything to you." *continues back to minding my own business*

LunarEclipse433 · Answer

If I like them I try to understand why. If it’s someone I don’t care about I don’t care

msc545 · Answer

It has been many years since anyone said that to me.

RMSTitanic · Answer

Less hurt than someone just stopping responding and not saying anything

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

I'm cool with it. I'm old enough to know thst everybody I like may not necessarily like me back

dolemite58 · Answer

“I don’t care” and a laugh is always my go to

Nikki1989 · Answer

I ignore and walk away.

mandyfire98 · Answer

That's unfortunate, have a nice life tho

handsomelad70 · Answer

FYITA (Use your imagation, lads and lasses !!!)

NathanDavis · Answer

amused... lol

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Fine! BE that way! Your loss, not mine!

Jennz6 · Answer

Just say “I don’t like you either”

jahaims · Answer

Probably wouldn't even acknowledge their existence

nawtee_me · Answer

Everyone is entitled to their feelings….

Sevenpointfive · Answer

what's the degree of dislike?

laly520 · Answer

would say ok

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