Can a 6-7/10 black woman secure a good loyal 8/10 man?

[Anonymous]

I always hear block women are the least attractive race and I just don’t get it. I know so many beautiful black women and women in media. I know people have some ghetto perception of black women but that simply isn’t true if you not searching for a wife in the inner city/urban areas. Most black women are just like normal women not horrible undateable argumentative monsters with out of wedlock kids. I just want to be a normal woman with a kind partner who will spoil me I don’t think I’m so different or less attractive because I’m black but honestly reading so much negative stuff online makes me think any man would just be settling for me over a white or Asian woman (or honestly just any other race.) Is it possible to get an attractive good faithful partner as a black woman?

[Anonymous]

Yes, but from my experience, most good looking men won’t spoil you. I am not saying there is no exception to the rule but this is what I have seen so far. Chads are either broke or stingy with their money. It has nothing to do with your race. Any race of women could get a good looking man but since they know they are eye candy to many women, they don’t feel the need to treat you “extra” special.

I saw some interracial couples online (regardless of their race), whenever the guy is good looking, the women never really leave the house lol like for fine dining, shopping or vacation. They also wear the same clothes and shoes. I don’t want to live like that lol. I know I should work and reward myself with my OWN money, but it is good to have a man who is willing to spoil us you know. I may sound like a gold digger but to me if it is consensual, it shouldn’t be an issue.

[Sonorous]

I'd say it's a more plausible scenario than a 6-7/10 black man securing a good loyal 8/10 woman. Guys are more willing to date down in looks than women are.

[Asker]

I think that applies more for non black women and average men. A lower end average man or below average man will date down especially if that woman is white or non black. Average people usually date other average people. Men are less likely to date down with black women the more attractive they get. Any man over a 7/10 has a lot of options because lots of women will find him attractive meaning he’s less likely to choose a black woman. This is from what I’ve read on the race dating attractiveness stuff It’s not something I hope is true but Its what I’ve been told

[Sonorous]

Tbh that could be right, you never know.

[Avicenna]

Sure, it's possible. But I'd suggest compromising a bit on his looks. They aren't the most important thing.

[Asker]

I just want someone I find attractive to spend the rest of my life with. White women can find a more attractive man with ease because them being white is desirable and normal so men are willing to look at their personality not just their looks. I just want that same option, an attractive kind man not just a guy who choose me because he can’t get a 4/10 blonde. Looks are subjective to me but it’s more about being a belt o have the same quality of nice things not just trying to over look average men.

[Asker]

being able*

[Avicenna]

Speaking of personality, I've known a large number of black women with great personalities. They often weren't that attractive, but every one of them had a man. I'm not suggesting that you don't have a good personality, I'm just saying that it's a real asset.

I think you should not worry about the competition and approach guys you find interesting. I think you should also consider dating outside your race (if you haven't already).

[Asker]

I’m perfectly fine with dating outside my rave I just have no idea how to meet or form a connection with a guy. My personalities pretty good I think I’ve never had an issue socially I have a lot a friends I just have never been able to really get to know or even talk to many guys my age. I do well with everyone else

[Avicenna]

The hardest communication with others is with people you're attracted to and want to get to know. And it's not easy for most people to simply approach a stranger or someone you don't know well and carry on a convo to indicate interest. But there are other ways to meet guys. What sorts of things are you interested in?

[Billlewis]

Oh, absolutely -- and the fact that you also want to be spoiled only makes you that much more attractive ❤️

[zagor]

Hmm, the "will spoil me" part is kind of a turnoff.

[Asker]

To you. I like generous men. That does mean he’s a slave I lay around and yell at it means we both do our part and he’s able to do nice things for me whether that be actions or gifts. Everyone deserves a loving partner like that

[Asker]

doesn't*

[Anonymous]

Those numbers are meaningless.

[laly520]

possible

[Team_link]

Why do you like black men?

[laly520]

where did I say I like black men?