Imagine you are my brother or father, what would you consider as a red flag about the boy that I might be dating?

[Anonymous]

[OtterMan68]

HE HAS ANGER ISSUES. Huge red flag

HE'S CONTROLLING: HUGE RED FLAG he has to know where you are all of the time, what you're doing, and with whom you're doing it.

He gets jealous easily.

He's mean to other people.

He does not respect your parents or family.

He has no goals in life.

He uses drugs, alcohol, or nicotine (assuming you're under 21 for the alcohol if not then only if he abuses it)

[ohsheeT]

Well if he didn't come introduce himself that would be a red flag and that's all about all I can tell you cuz I don't know who he is or what he's all about but that's the first thing you need to do is go introduce himself to your father

[Wise4myage]

If he’s doing drugs, or has no job.

[riverrat3]

Attitude