Eating you is a 3rd date thing. You are still in the buttstuff stage. Proceed with caution. ⚠️
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I mean I don't really define what needs to be done at what stage, but unless I feel that I'm in love with him (which would usually happen well beyond the 3rd date for me personally), I wouldn't talk like that. Thankfully a lot of people agree that it's most likely love-bombing and manipulation. Glad I wasn't the only one suspecting that
He is love bombing you. He is a lonely depressed perv and also a narcissist maybe who wouldn't get a girl near his own place so he would rather send you erotic texts at night and wants to lock you down immediately. I won't be surprised if later he tries to isolate you. Run girl. Run.
moving ahead way too soon, is a sign he's a catfish, have you asked to video chat with him, because if he denies or comes up with an excuse as to why he can't he's likely a scammer, be careful
Wow It is very over the top. It's sweet maybe that he's seriously into you, and the attention is, in itself not overly disturbing. That you haven't conveyed that you have any particularly strong interest is a concern though
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I've never met a guy who texts like that and thought they were normal... That's coming from me though so maybe get some other opinions.
Usually people who talk like that seem pretty delusional though.
Eating you is a 3rd date thing. You are still in the buttstuff stage. Proceed with caution. ⚠️
I mean I don't really define what needs to be done at what stage, but unless I feel that I'm in love with him (which would usually happen well beyond the 3rd date for me personally), I wouldn't talk like that. Thankfully a lot of people agree that it's most likely love-bombing and manipulation. Glad I wasn't the only one suspecting that
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Lmao 😂
He is love bombing you. He is a lonely depressed perv and also a narcissist maybe who wouldn't get a girl near his own place so he would rather send you erotic texts at night and wants to lock you down immediately. I won't be surprised if later he tries to isolate you. Run girl. Run.
What he feels is infatuation.
That obsession is usually dangerous.
that dude is weird... i'd stop talking to him. what he is doing is not normal for a grown man to do.
Yeah, he's a little too enthusiastic, in my opinion.
These types of long distance relationships can be tricky, takin them slow would be wise, if he can't respect that I wouldn't continue with it.
"he expects me to be exclusive to him already"
Any controlling talk is a red flag.
A little? This guy is a nut. Tell him you aren't interested in too much, too soon.
Something's wrong with this guy. Exit, stage right.
Go with your gut , its ridiculous , wayyyyyyy over the top like this is never , ever a good thing , this guy must be some kind of freak.
Is his name Ankit by any chance? And surname starts from D and he works in Reliance?
Interesting that you ask. Unfortunately no, but he is Indian, have you had a similar experience with guy named Ankit?
Two days of texting and he expects exclusivity? Sounds like you’ll be dealing with control issues early and often.
moving ahead way too soon, is a sign he's a catfish, have you asked to video chat with him, because if he denies or comes up with an excuse as to why he can't he's likely a scammer, be careful
Block him girl, I think he's letting you know the kind of guy he is. But it is well, God is Good
Yes, it's too much. Would be too much even for second week or second month
If you are in any sort of 'talking stage' nothing will happen. Bet.
That is way too quick and are u sure u want an ldr? I would slow things down a ton
The love of his life after 2 days? Girl run!
Wow It is very over the top. It's sweet maybe that he's seriously into you, and the attention is, in itself not overly disturbing. That you haven't conveyed that you have any particularly strong interest is a concern though
"Eat You?" (I'm glad I'm old). He's love bombing you (thanks, Avicenna) because he's desperate.