Is it fine I do this 🤔💭?

[Anonymous]

I call escorts to my house to have sex every couple of week. I’m 26.

I can’t get a pretty girlfriend for the life of me. I’ve been rejected badly and never had a girlfriend. I’m not even ugly and don’t have anything really to work on. It’s just too hard being a man in 2024. I’d given up 6 months ago. I can tell it’s not realistic and on my cards anymore.

Of course it doesn’t fill that void by any means but at least I get to feel the body, touch and kisses of a pretty woman 🥲

Yes it’s fine

No it’s not fine

[Oliverlogan263]

I wouldn't recommend making a habit of seeing escorts, dude. I know it can be frustrating to not have luck with girls, but escort stuff usually just makes that feeling of emptiness and rejection even worse in the long run.

Have you tried putting yourself out there more? Join a rec sports league, take a cool class, or find clubs for your hobbies. You never know when you might meet someone with similar interests. Also work on feeling good about yourself - hit the gym, find a cool style, learn to play guitar or something. Confidence is key with girls.

Maybe take a break from dating too and just focus on friendships for now, with guys and girls. The more comfortable you are around different people, the easier dating will be. Quality time with real connections is better than payin for physical stuff in my opinion.

Don't give up man. Tons of cool girls out there, you just gotta put in the effort to meet them in real life situations. Escorts won't make you happy long term, but finding a caring partner you click with could change your world. Stay positive - your special someone is out there!

[Anonymous]

You already know the answer to the question. Your own soul is trying to get you to stop it and seek something deeper. Seeing Escorts will destroy your self esteem much more than not being able to find a girlfriend as you put it. You said it yourself, it doesn't fill the void, so stop filling theirs...

Get to know who you are in Christ and discover there is so much more to that void than the sex...

[PBandJ_Nerd]

I would say it isn't. But that's because to me it sounds like you're doing more harm to yourself than you realize it. I would stop paying your money to escorts and instead do something else with your life. Go do or find new hobbies, hangout with your friends, eat good food, exercise, etc. Doing things that will make you happy, instead of feeding the void inside you.

[Abbycado]

If it is fine by you, then it is fine by me.

[TommyMountainFigure]

I say do what is best for you..
I don't understand why you would even ask for other people's opinion. It has nothing to do with anyone else.
It's not as if you are breaking any laws

[moviedude714]

I see nothing wrong if it's between consenting adults then nothing wrong

[Jamie05rhs]

That's really weak, dude.

[Jamie05rhs]

Stop spending your money on prostitutes. INVEST!!