If a girl gives me her number shouldn't I just try and push her boundaries away asap because the chance is high no response in the future?

[Sharkstealth]

This is in the circumstance that the number is completely voluntary without mention.

[Oliverlogan263]

Nah man, don't rush it. Getting the number is just the start. You gotta play it cool now.

Wait a day or two before you text. Then just be like "hey it's [your name] from earlier, was fun chatting." See if she engages and wants to keep talking.

Don't immediately ask her out or come on too strong. Let her set the pace at first. If she's giving one word replies and seems uninterested, back off. But if she's asking you questions too and the convo flows, then maybe in a few days you can suggest meeting up.

The key is not seeming desperate. Act like you got other options even if you don't. Compliment her but don't lay it on thick. Flirt a little to show interest, but don't just hit on her non-stop.

Let her open up to you over text before pushing for more. Girls like a challenge - if you make it too easy she won't be as into it. Play it cool and you could score a date. But go slow, feel it out first. You got this!

[Juxtapose]

Just call her when you feel like it and if she doesn't answer after you trying a few times? Give up and move on to the next one.

[Nikki1989]

You can try actually talking. Remember talking?

[Sharkstealth]

That's the reason she volunteered her number to me. Talking in the future is her shield. I can't control that.

[chrissykerdock]

call her

[Sharkstealth]

I already tried. I get really frustrated. I try a couple times through different times. Maybe the 3 day rule or a week. Then I get mad and just get blunt but still no response. It's a regular occurrence for me. If I don't get them the day I meet then they never speak to me again even though I never requested it.