Are white women racist and insecure if they don't want to date a white guy who prefers Asian women?

[Anonymous]

Would you say that a white woman is racist and insecure if she doesn't want to date a white guy who thinks that Asian women are better and more attractive than white women?

[laly520]

whats with all the backhanded topics n racial questions lately

I doubt white women care about it if alex or john or whoever like Asian girls but the guy is racist for fetishizing a whole race

[Asker]

Are white girls racist for fetishizing black guys? Or it's just the white men who like Asian girls?

[laly520]

both racist for fetishizing a whole group of people

[Asker]

I appreciate your honesty.

[wiltingrosepetal]

No it's just recognising that you aren't his type lol

[Asker]

But what if he chose to he with you?

[wiltingrosepetal]

Okay. My type is guys with thick, dark hair and big noses, 6ft+.
Doesn't mean I wouldn't date a guy who's blonde, short, with a button nose. But it does mean that I wouldn't be AS attracted to him as I would be for a guy with those features

[wiltingrosepetal]

Choosing to be with someone who's not your type means in a way that you're settling, and it wouldn't make your partner feel good to hear that 🤷‍♀️

[Asker]

Would you be okay with a guy who thinks you're not as good and attractive as an Asian woman?

[wiltingrosepetal]

I feel like I've already said no 💀 He can go to Asia if he wants an Asian woman. There are a billion of them lol

[RebelinSteel]

That makes the guy racist

also I know zero guys that prefer Asian girls, pretty much every guy likes girls no matter ethnicity or skin colour. But I guess racists have to as they do.

[Asker]

Dude, do you have Borderline Personality Disorder by any chance?

It's just a question, you don't need to get mad.

[RebelinSteel]

lol no one mad 🤣

[LazerBean]

Exactly. If thinking that people from one race is better than people of another race is not racist, then I don't know it is.

[DrPepper12]

No. It's just a preference. I think Persian women are a standard all should aspire to and I'm male, pale m stale!

[Asker]

I feel ya, Persian women are beautiful indeed!

[petitedollbabee]

In what world would that make the white woman the racist one.. she’s not the one who believes that a certain race is better than another, unlike the man.

[Asker]

I can understand that feeling from white women.

What I can't understand is why we white men are judged for not wanting to date white women who prefer black guys. We are called racist for doing the same thing as white women would do.

[Anonymous]

Why would anyone want to date someone not attracted to them though? That seems stupid.

[Asker]

I agree.

[JoeGoldberg]

No because why would the guy she is about to date say “I find Asian women more attractive” that’s weird and there’s no point in that.

[handsomelad70]

Boy, oh boy. It's white women who usually won't date us, so they likely are racist if they shun white men who like Asian women, because they feel that, as white women, they are the cream of the crop (most aren't) and white men MUST date them or be regarded as dating race traitors.(I actually spelled "traitors" correctly;I can't count the various misspellings of the word I've encountered.)

[JoeGoldberg]

‘White women’? I’m not even white but it sounds like you’re just generalizing everyone, i don’t think its that deep.

[handsomelad70]

Yes, it is. Though black men-white women couples are far more numerous and accepted than during my boyhood, most white women still see us, if anything, as buds not boyfriends.

[JoeGoldberg]

Okay… but why do you care so much?