Help on this girl I like?

[syphus]

like this really nice girl, were in a situationship for 5 months , she expected id say something , didn't ( regret to this day ) she then started dating another guy , i being smart started avoiding her but like everytime did it she used to ask where were you or why you were avoiding , made up excuses , now don't avoid her but like still do like her, we do 1-2 hrs long calls at 2-3 am still, we are close that way but I don't know man, i want to spend time with her , talk with her.

[molonski2]

Wholly sht bro , I know you are young and that seriously makes it so much harder sometimes ( but it shouldn't ) , you know I'm really old , but I still think back sometimes to some of the mistakes I made around your age , so I can advise from a position of feeling. At this age , women her age dont really know what they want , and neither do we , but I can assure you she is still super keen , otherwise she would not talk to you for 2 hours " as a friend " ( bullshit ) ..

So you my friend , need to grow a pair and throw absolute caution to the wind , and really put yourself out there ( I still use this strategy ) .. You know why? Otherwise all you waste is time , so at this point you've already faced rejection , so what is to loose? But what is to gain? plenty , even a little bit of arrogance will go a long way , ask her out ( but make intent clear ) and just completely forget about this other guy.

I can guarantee you , even if you think it hasn't worked initially , it will work , dont be like me , I had women coming up years later and saying " Ohh , I was infatuated with you in school , we followed you everywhere " -- I didn't even know !

I knew they liked me , but I was just young and lacked the bravery , its one thing I'd advise , just dont let her slip by.

[syphus]

haven't faced rejection as such but schools pretty much over , entrances for colleges are going our friend group does plan to meet after the entrances.
my best friend and her best friend are dating , her best friend told my best friend that she's pretty serious about this guy

[molonski2]

Look , if so , she would not be talking to you on the phone for 2-3 hours , something is missing.

[syphus]

so i just like go up to her and be like yeah i like you, cuz she knows that i like her

[molonski2]

Not as blatant as that , but you also make it EXTREMELY obvious , take her out alone , make it clear , nothing ventured , even if the initial response is negative , it will end positive..
Because you have put all on the line..

[dustybiker2]

Be brave and tell her you like her. Rejection is less painful and shorter lived than regret.

[dustybiker2]

Possible rejection. Not trying to jinx you.

[syphus]

thats the thing mate , dont want to lose her before i had feelings for her she was a great friend and still is and frankly the first girl to kind of make me open up

[Anonymous]

Keep on doing what you have been doing. That is all you can do at this point.

[syphus]

i thought the same , so didn't talk to her a few days and replied dryly , she kept reviving the convos

[JayBones2469]

Can you ask this again only this time in English?

[syphus]

what?

[JayBones2469]

This isn't in English, and I can't understand what you are saying.

[Anonymous]

Find someone else