Help with this girl?

[Anonymous]

A girl started to staring at me, we make eye contact and we don't look away, I don't know her, I even don't know her name, but I see her sometimes in the college, her classmates look at me and say things each other, I don't know them either, I don't understand why they do that. I like thks girl and I'm planning to approach her the next time that we see each other.

What do you think about this situation? And what should I d o?

[Anonymous]

It seems like for months now I see you post about a girl at your college. I don't know if it’s been the same one all this time but honestly I would stop staring if I were you. It’s just weird and you don’t even try talk to her. If I were her and catch you looking how you always say you do then of course I will look back and stare like ‘wtf man?’. It’s not deep as you make it just focus on school.

[Asker]

This is a new girl, I just like reading advices, this helps me a lot. She was who started staring at me, now she just give a fast look to me, maybe she wait to me approach her, that's why I need females opinions. Thank u

[Opinion Owner]

At least it’s new girl. So why not approach and talk to her yourself? Even if this isn’t same girl, you could at least approach and talk. Since none of us can read her mind, we can’t tell you for certain what she’s thinking or why she does what she does. So rather than play tag catching each other looking, but the man in this and make the move. Because you know as the girl she will likely not.

[Asker]

Because we study in different classrooms, I rarely see her everyday, we are in different buildings, i just see her leaving the campus, not always, I haven't found the right moment to approach her. Today, she gave a fast look, we look each other and she stopped waiting her friend. Maybe she thinks that I don't like her or I'm not interested, I want talk her and show my interest, but I don't want look desperate.

[Asker]

*I mean she stopped walking to wait for her friend

[Opinion Owner]

You see her more than enough, so I think you should stop overthinking and just walk up to say hi. That’s not desperate. There’s no way to know what she’s thinking unless you hear it from her, and honestly you don’t know what her personal life is like so she could be dating someone for all you know and just wondering why you stare so much, just like you wonder the same. I mean one person has to notice the other looking to stare right? She’s in your mind now, so you probably check for her without even noticing. Anyway, all your answers lie with that lady, so just take a breath and make a move. Doesn’t have to be weird or nothing. If she’s taken then no problem you literally didn’t know better but regardless at least you tried.

[Asker]

Thank you for your help.