Alpha females have intrinsic characteristics—aside from being competitive, controlling, and more aggressive, they are also born healthier, more energetic, and more resilient.
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Alpha females have intrinsic characteristics—aside from being competitive, controlling, and more aggressive, they are also born healthier, more energetic, and more resilient.
Welcome back to the Alpha Chronicles.
I think I’m just myself. 😂 I stay away from such terminologies. I can’t even bother to become informed on it and fuel it. That’s why I didn’t read- I saw something.. I don't know if it said altruistic or so, but I darted my eyes away tbh 😂.
And now, whenever I see/ read guys who think they’re better than women or so (alpha or not, for either gender), I just ignore them. I simply don’t associate with this rivalry.
I live my life, and I honestly love that I made this decision. So am I an alpha?
I only ever considered it because of a game I played, where it was mostly pack animals, and many times I’d become the alpha due to scores and many weaker players would follow my lead. It was nice and many, MANY times, I never let any of them die in my care/ supervision. I also sacrificed myself, or made it in ways where they’d get the winning points, while I did the dirty work. Hard work.
My husband used to joke and say I was “his alpha,” until I really teased him and we both wanted to be alpha afterward. 😂
At this point, though, the society stuff, and all- I just don’t care for it. The way I saw it. It’ll only lead to division and frustration amongst people. So why fuel it, define it, and give it meaning or meaningful purpose? 🤷♀️ 🤔
Coach, did you miss some meds this month… the Alpha questions are too much but I will answer to help your OCD on this subject.
Alphas don’t exist… and yet they do. No, we aren’t wolves so they don’t exist. Yes, there are some guys that have a commanding presence and people know it. I don’t know what the secret sauce is in that but I have felt it myself but that stemmed from a position of power. I didn’t get that position by being alpha, Ingot it because I was the undeniably the best and what I did which involved very large sums of money.
Alphas though are pussies and run of the mill in general. They have a need for people to follow them and that weakness makes them pussies. They aren’t in control. They do things that allow them to have some control like the High School football star which 5 years later is pumping gas which is kind of like the Bruce Springsteen song “Glory Days”.
The real guys that run the show and should be feared are the ones that won’t be cowed and can stand on their feet when the social pressure is intense. No matter your politics, Trump exudes this, Biden does not. Yes, Trump will at times do that but that is to weird a weapon to get what he wants.
Like many guys, Incan take an Alpha down as they are weak and depend and need others. i can take them down without a scope at 300 meters, lol. If needed a lot of guys can be vicious and these so called Alphas will shit themselves. Press us and find out for real or as they say, fuck around and find out.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/1BneV3MXM_QWield a weapon*.
Yeah I sure would , the genuine ones that I know I always got along great with , there are also fake Alpha females ( as I'm sure there are males too ) , these ones I had trouble with , but the genuine " power " influences of the Alpha female I found quite inspirational , and I actually enjoyed playing a lessor role myself , felt void of a great deal of pressure.
I have one particular boss in mind , who I didn't think I'd get along with , until she got the BIG job , 2 kids , broken marriage , absolutely driven , spoke openly about when she felt down , or doubted herself that she called the phycologist , and you know she was fantastic , because she understood the strengths of the individual and worked with in..
My final lunch after 11 years was in Melbourne , and on that business table I was the only guy , and for the most part that was fantastic.
lol
no such thing :D
people are different, but giving names to only one set of personality traits is quite excluding :D
and as a sentient species, we can learn, so the traits we are born with don't limit us. We can learn how to be controlling, demanding, dominant... how would you distinguish? Or it doesn't matter?
why can't we enjoy diversity without excluding one group and giving them a name (and some will feel appreciated when some will feel degraded)
Do you feel degraded?
I'm not in this group, so no, but believe me, not everyone likes to be labeled
I don't label anyone specifically so if the shoe fits
you label by personality traits... natural or learned...
It's not my label. I am just repeating it lol
so, what is your source? I can't see any link
source for what specifically?
you wrote it's not your label, that you are repeating it... so show after what you are repeating
Just Google it for Christ sake …you act as if I made all this up myself lol
Took 5 seconds to find that one
lmao... there is nothing about "being competitive, controlling, and more aggressive" :D
Go get mad at psychology today lmao
trash... no bibliography... so one woman just wrote something without any research to confirm her thesis
Yes so go bitch at her lol
why should I? At least the first link had some research but described the female alpha totally differently...
so it looks like what you described in your question is just someone's imagination...
Yes Psychology Today just posts crazy stuff from non reputable people. Okay lol Wonder how they have survived this long with all that imagination
I base it on facts... A good scientific article has research as a base or other scientific articles as a bibliography... there is nothing... no links, no bibliography, nothing, just an opinion of one lady
Psychology Today is not a scientific portal. It is a more popular science... and I think that is why the article lacks important elements.
Stop labeling people. It's not my label. What is your source. Here is my source. Your source sucks. lol This is how every conversation ends and I find it hilarious.
lmao... you take it personal :D
It just gets old when people lose arguments they just can't say thanks appreciate you sending me the source of information of where you got this from. They have to gaslight and say oh look you are triggered or you are taking it personal. It's okay. I am used to it.
lol, when I give you a logical explanation, you go to emotions. When I point out you took it personally you try to blame me :D
It's normal for people to want to know what you base your thesis on. It's normal to evaluate the sources. You as a question author should be prepared for such questions if you share not your vision but someone's else
Not blaming anyone. Thanks for the comments. Always appreciated.
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I think Alpha females don’t usually look alpha…
I think they wear dresses, they are feminine, classy and very seductive.
They know how to be weak…
And when to be strong…
I don’t think Alpha females are harsh, aggressive or so on…
Instead they are very gentle and know the right words to tell you to change you from just a man into her “army”.
Alpha female are cute 🙃
@moneymagnet24 Never thought them cute (I know some are, even beautiful), but OK.
I agree with LaFemmeFatale_1. With a name like that I’d hope she knows a little bit of something about female power. In the end, I believe, femininity IS power and a woman can exert a ton of influence on the world around her with her smile, ability to speak well, and charm than any “tough girl” energy she wishes to harness.
I am an ordinary guy. If she "allowed" me to be myself, make room in her life for me in her life and did not micromanage me, yes I could. I would appeal to her by being absolutely safe for her physically and emotionally and would provide suggestions and opportunities for travel and entertainment that she would otherwise suppress and then be unhappy because "something is missing".
"Hey! Lets go that NASCAR race today". "Hey. Lets travel to Tasmania on vacation".
I would give her something in her life that she wouldn't do for herself because you need a companion to enjoy it.
AND, I would become am absolute world champion at oral sex.
Depends on what you mean by "Alpha Female".
To me a female (or even a male) does not have to be bossy or dominating to be an "Alpha". An alpha female is a woman who is on top of her shit. If she works, she handles business. If she works out, she puts the effort in for her health, not to impress others.
An alpha female is confident and sets healthy boundaries. She is willing to speak her mind. However, she also knows how to be ride or die with her man and support him in his troubles. An alpha female is a woman who can keep a healthy balance.
I have, was fantastic. But I don't agree with that description.
Alpha females have it in them to be leaders, they can make decisions on their own and they seek a partner who can join them on an equal level. They don't seek to submit to a man, they seek a man to work with as a power couple.
So to me it's a highly competent girl who doesn't try to control me (Although maybe she'll do it at first to see if I am a pushover) but it's a girl who will want to share the director's seat.
Not by society views of alpha. The whole thing is bogus anyway since the original researcher who coined the phrase, came out and said everything about the description is false. Wolves dont have alpha hierarchy, they switch leaders all the time in the pack and the leader is always in the back to help strugglers and keep the wondering members from wondering off and putting themselves in danger. Society sees alphas as aggro, loud, rude, and dominatative types, those traits are what gets a wolf kicked out of the pack for endangering the whole pack. A real alpha is supportive, and a good leader, making sure everyone gets what they need.
I’ve seen a lot of so called “alpha females” conveniently look for shoulders to cry on when things don’t go their way.
Sure some women are more driven and mentally tougher then others. I respect that and will give credit where credit’s due.
But it’s like how Rhonda Rousey was crying on the Elle show about being suicidal after she lost her first fight years ago. How many male UFC fighters would do something like that right after losing a fight?
I don’t think there is any “Alpha” males or females. However, to play along, a high value and high-worth female is exactly what most men want to date. The thing is since there is no such thing, the definition of what makes them Alpha lay with each man as he sees what he wants in a woman.
I’m definitely a matriarchal figure, but my energy is more relaxed than that of what most people consider to be “alpha female.”
Actually, if you look up sigma female traits, I’m definitely more of that.
Are you able to adapt to a dominant man? For example a husband who is a leader but treats you good and takes good care of you, plus he's loyal and everything, it's just that he's the head of the house... etc
Well that's something that you and your future husband should talk about if you're not married 😄
Personally i'll only marry a girl whos adores becoming a what? A 👉🏻HOUSEWIFE👈🏻 haha
You see, if my future wife can't depend on my financially than whom she's going to depend on?
I respect other people's choices circus girl, but let's say someday something had happened to you or you were ill and couldn't work for a specific reason? Will your husband dump you? You might tell him that you understand if he wanna throw you out and divorce you because that was the compromise before your marriage but you'll be shocked to see that he was willing to raise you financially and tells you that he's money is your money too because both of you are one, what matters is you! Money come and go! I guess at this point you will truly realize who is your whole life and your everything 😌
That's nice circus girl 😌
That's how a real couple works as ONE!
I don't think that's the definition of a true alpha female. You described a dick head, businessman. And why are so-called alphas always portrayed as suit-wearing, urban professionals?
Well you tell us then.
Here are some ideas.
First, she's feminine. She doesn't mimic toxic masculine characteristics like dominance, assertiveness, competitiveness and aggression, as do most female politicians and women in the business world.
She's smart, motivated, hard working, competent, thinks for herself, and is no one's door mat. She doesn't cower, grovel or submit but she's a great team player. She doesn't care about one-upsmanship.
She has a job or career and is self-sufficient, but wants a husband who has similar qualities and values.
She cares for herself, is healthy, fit, has self-respect, self-esteem and confidence, but isn't arrogant.
She has female qualities like empathy and compassion. She's tender and nurturing.
She's a loyal, loving partner and great mother.
She is ethical, trustworthy, dependable, organized and inspires respect from others.
She's involved in community projects and the kid's school and often organizes projects. She's well respected and inspires others. A natural leader who leads by example and inspiration, not coercion or intimidation.
She's a great cook. She gardens. She can sew and is handy with crafts and home projects. She might know how to ride a horse, fish, hunt, gather wild mushrooms and other edibles, and care for animals.
She has a good sense of humor, is fun and funny, is tender hearted but can be as tough as nails.
Sure, as long as she agreed we would only get an alpha car, and an alpha dog, and have alpha babies and love in an alpha house with an alpha porch swing and alpha deck... 😂
Alpha porch? come there is no such thing. Ha
Porches are made of wood come on man you're better than this.
There is no such thing as an alpha car either... let's do better.
Some people can't recognize satire and that is the beauty of my posts. Satire: the use of humor, irony, exaggeration, or ridicule to expose and criticize people's stupidity or vices, particularly in the context of contemporary politics and other topical issues.
You want me to be a red pill weirdo because it makes you feel better about yourself. Awesome you do you man.
What numbers are you referring too? lol
The idea that women are universally attracted to "Alpha Males" is a stereotype and doesn't accurately represent the complexities of human attraction. However, there are some theories that attempt to explain why certain individuals may be drawn to what is commonly perceived as "Alpha Male" behavior. Here are some of those theories. This MyTake is for entertainment purposes only. Don't believe everything you read on the internet. Do your own research. Wink!
That is the beginning of the MYTake I just did. You want to be rigid and not have a good time on my posts then that is on you. I don't care. Most know what's up.
You can assume most know "what's up" but I haven't seen any attempt to confirm it. The problem is if you aren't confirming it in some way you are getting the redpill weirdos believe they are getting validation. This encourages them rather than let's them know they are being mocked.
Not my problem... thanks for the comments.
LOL why because you say so? My little posts on GAG? Get TF out of here with that nonsense.
Red Pill has some good education in it... don't agree with everything but most of it is good stuff so weirdos as you put it comes with the territory of all good intentions.
You think Red Pill is ALL bad? Nothing good at all?
Most men would never see the good points though without sifting through all the stupid nonsense because nobody else is talking about it. It's unfortunate. If you are smart you will take the good stuff and ignore the rest like any good researcher would do.
Other people are talking about it. https://youtu.be/CDrJo8d45gc?si=O6OP2XdH1GWRQVxz
No you missed my point. People are only talking about it under the guise of RED PILL. All the good stuff from RED PILL may not have come from RED PILL but you can't find it anywhere else under any other name. Hence the video above RED PILL in Big Red Letters lol
That is exactly the problem to which I refer. The red pill weirdos have bought The Conversation so no one can talk about it without at least appearing to sign on to all the less than savory b. s. that comes with it. But that less than savory b. s. is why they do it - the good points are a recruiting tool not something they are actually trying to address.
There will always be bad actors in any field. I just believe most men like myself can read the RED PILL and get the good stuff and discard the bad... Can't worry about the few who don't.
I believe most are so we will have to agree to disagree. There will always be sheep who get slaughtered.
Using the terms “alpha”, “beta”, or “sigma” is a great way to signal that you don’t understand how human behavior works. These silly labels are truly worthless and don’t mean anything.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 I hear ya sister
Now it's alpha females? What is wrong with you?
Is there no such thing either? oh no lol
As an alpha female I disagree. There's no need for aggression, that's the hallmark of bottomdwellers looking to impress monkeys. A good disapproving glance is all it takes.
We all know you're not an alpha female.
Out of all the traits you have listed I am the last three: healthy, confident and resilient does that mean I am a half Alpha Woman? Lol!
Great question lol
Lol!!
Back on this, are ya coach?
I think your link is broken doesn't come up
lol oh gotcha
I don't think there are Alpha Females or perhaps more precisely they come across instead as Bad Moms.
Not going to date a Bad Mom type.
LOL okay
Why are you using my picture? Cough up $20, right now.
No. I don't appreciate people who think they are more important than others.
There are people though more important than others lol how will everyone know otherwise?
I would not say they are more important than other people, rather that they are more confident and assertive than other people.
Every time I hear alpha females I think dikes. I don’t know what the nice term for them is so that’s what I’ll use.
Having been with one is very different from that. She was definitely feminine, but had strong leadership skills and was ambitious. Best of both worlds basically, and I could see her as a truly strong partner who was my equal at making decisions and I was hers. They do require someone who can take charge and doesn't let himself be walked over, but they also want to share in the driver seat rather than just letting her guy make the decisions.
No I'm definitely not alpha but I'm also not a weak beta coward. I'm just not driven in life.