A guy I’m seeing said he wanted to shove my head down a toilet? Is it wrong to be put off now?

[SunTheia]

I know he was joking but I feel disrespected and creeped out he would say that about me? Should I break it off?

I’ve never been in a relationship before so don’t really know what to do?

[NathanDavis]

that's definitely weird...

joking about physically forcing you... bit creepy thing to "joke" about

[slatyb]

That's creepy and but say all funny. On some level he meant it. Don't get involved with him. If you are, get uninvolved.

[Flatmanlewis]

A/ That’s horrible.
B/ I think he’s into some really ugly porn.

[Sun_Kim-Ai]

Sounds like a threat. I would go no contact with such a person.

[bobby_bush_eater]

That guy sounds like a creep/immature tbh. I'd be very aware of any other odd behaviors, not enough context here to say if you should break up or not

[sirderpsalot123]

How you feel about it isn't wrong. Everyone has a different sense of humor. Talk to him about and tell him you don't want him to joke around like that with you.

[LiamS95]

I can't understand for even one second why any guy would say that to any woman he cared about.

[Iron_Man]

That sounds scary and disrespectful and it is creepy. I don’t know about this guy for you. Be careful hanging out with him by yourself alone

[Danny_dan92]

Lmaoo jesus christ. He wants to degrade you apparently

[AngryCarl]

He wasn't joking. When a guy says he wants to shove your head down the toilet you can take that to the bank.

[DubbsActual]

That seems a bit extreme. I'd move on. That kind of comment is out of line, and simply RUDE.

[DextroShade]

Let's be real here: you are going to go back to that guy and get your head shoved down the toilet and you will ignore or friend-zone multiple decent guys who wouldn't do that along the way.

[Ironic_Method]

Incel logic here.

[DextroShade]

@Ironic_Method you are a simp.

[SunTheia]

Jokes on you, I broke it off with him. We don’t live near each other so there is no chance I’ll ever see him. He tried to rationalise that by saying all men talk this way and I’m too busy looking for a Prince Charming that won’t come. I’m a virgin dk I’m highly selective and would never give my virginity to a man like that. Check your facts before you run your mouth

[Ironic_Method]

You seem incredibly hostile for how naive you are.

[SunTheia]

@Ironic_Method what’s that supposed to mean?

[DextroShade]

@SunTheia if that's the case I am glad to be proven wrong.

[SunTheia]

Thanks, sorry for being rude.

[JackMeoff21009]

Does he mean sexually? Like he wants to piss on you? That’s a kink for sure.

[Night_Descends]

Yep. Break it off. Not normal at all.

[Nikki1989]

Is he a deranged lunatic?

[SunTheia]

I’m starting to think maybe he is?

[shortster]

That sounds like a red flag if there ever was one.

[Abdulwahh]

Yes sounds scary to me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Dayum why

[handsomelad70]

Ya think?

[Anonymous]

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