Do any women like chubby men?

[calamity5656]

I am obviously a chubby man and wanted to know if im on a unicorn hunt trying to find someone interested in me or if women who like fat men exist. (I am 5'11.5 and 275lb for reference)

[SomothErgai]

Well let's be clear about what you're actually asking here. You do not mean to ask if ANY woman in the world would date a chubby guy. Obviously there are millions and millions of chubby and fat women who date chubby and fat guys.

Your issue isn't finding a "woman" that will date a chubby guy. Your issue is finding a HOT woman that would date a chubby guy. And yeah. There are some. Just not that many. Hot people tend to want to be with other hot people because they believe they deserve it.

Its a shitty way to view things but that's just human nature. From one chubby guy to another, do what I'm doing. Work on that shit. Learn about how fitness and weight loss actually work. Learn how to count calories. Learn how to create and maintain a calorie deficit. And you WILL lose weight.

Pro tip. Walk. Walk your fucking ass off. There is simply no easier way to burn an absolute shit ton of calories. It just takes a while.

There are 3500 calories in a pound. Let's say you weigh about 220. If you get on a decent treadmill, say like the kind at planet fitness where I go. set it to no less than 3 mph and an incline of no less than 7.5. put in some earphones. Download some shows or movies on your phone. Set it up so you can watch it and just walk.

Takes about 35-40 minutes to burn 500 calories. I do sets of 500 at a time 3 times for 1500 calories. Takes between an hour and a a half to two hours depending on if you have to slow down to catch your breath or stretch or something before going back to it.

That's nearly half a pound PER DAY. You can easily knock out the other 250 calories just doing regular shit throughout the day for a full half pound daily work out.

Now as long as you eat somewhere in the neighborhood of healthy your body will have no choice but to lose weight. Just keep that up and you can literally walk your ass into a hotter body.

Good luck

[Chazmatazz269]

There’s this thing we do, might almost be “human nature”. We pick a thing about ourselves, usually something we don’t much like ourselves, and wonder whether or not someone else could overlook that thing and accept us. The short and easy answer to it is ‘yes’, no matter what that thing is about you, someone can and likely will overlook it and accept you. Some people might even accept you because of it. I’ll refer you to stories like “Love After Lockup”.
It’s not that simple though. Cuz if you’re hung up on it yourself, it’s unattractive. It’s cliche, but you gotta love yourself first and foremost. For realsies. Even if that thing is something you can’t change about yourself, for example being a short man, being hung up on it will keep you from developing a well rounded personality. When someone meets you the first time and they’re tryna describe you to a friend, will you be “the chubby guy”? Or will you be “the smart guy”, “the funny guy”, “the farmer”, “the musician”, “the great dancer”? No matter what that thing is for you, as long as you don’t let it be the only memorable thing about you, or the most prominent thing about you, you WILL leave an impression on people and THAT impression is what determines if they come back to see you again and how long they stay. To be honest though, know that you will have to be more charming and interesting because you’re chubby. Cuz you’re competing with guys who are charming and interesting but not chubby. That’s just the reality of the game. It doesn’t necessarily mean you’re gonna win or lose.
So, tell me this: what are you besides “chubby”? How do people think of you, and what, if anything, are you doing to affect their impressions of you?

[D_Bonez_nutt]

Here's the truth. Nobody likes chubby anybody. You dudes let yourselves get guilt tripped into going for some chub by fat chicks. Yet they don't date chubs themselves do they?

Don't believe the lies. Show me a chick that says she'll date a guy shorter than her, and I'll show you a body count that doesn't match her words AT FUCKING ALL.

We bitches be lying... go hit the gym.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

Thank you for the MHO ♥

[mandyfire98]

I am a very active and fit person but I also like a dad bod as much as a fit body. As long as it isn't like really unhealthy

[Avicenna]

Of course some do- I see chubby men with women fairly regularly.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

Okay... isn't money a factor though?

[Avicenna]

@D_Bonez_nutt: I can't say, except for the one case I definitely know it isn't- my best friend has no trouble at all getting women and he's overweight. He makes a decent salary but isn't rich.

[D_Bonez_nutt]

Perhaps one of those rare cases where personality outshines ineptitudes in other departments 🤷‍♂️
Overall, these are mere exceptions to the rule, and I generally think the rule of thumb is that the physical health matters in the eyes of beholders more so than not.

Basically, our found exceptions to the rule, are not what makes the rule. We can't base our reality on exceptions that we found here and there, expecially if we're talking in generalities.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I’ve never dated a chubby guy.

[SeriouslyNotSerious]

I do. I like all kinds of men—fit, average, chubby. ❤️ Just not smaller than me, 'cause I'm small already. 😁

[MsProsperity]

Yes I do, as long as he’s not lazy. Chubby men know how to treat a lady and they hardly cheat

[Abbycado]

Personally, no. I try and stay fit and work hard at it. Would want a guy that has similar values.

Used to like to work out with my boyfriend (now ex).

[Deltanteiger]

Well good to know.

[NewUser22]

@Abbycado great answer. I feel the same way. They don’t need to be a fitness model or anything like that but I feel like I put a lot of work into it so I would want someone who does the same.

[IslaTheWitch]

It's extremely unhealthy being overweight. Most people rather prefer healthy partners...

[ApplePie409]

No.

[Nikki1989]

I like them so much that I married one.

[Deltanteiger]

Of course they would man.
I am like 5'11 and 246 lbs.

[SotiCoto]

Some do. Yes. But generally with women, how you behave is more important than how you look... or even how heavy you are.

[JHAYES317]

Any women? Sure. There is at least one woman for almost anything…however will you be able to find her? Not sure…

[OddBeMe]

Based on documentary evidence of sitcoms…of course! Expect hot ass wives who do nothing but cook and raise the children. And some hilarity based off oddly simplistic misunderstandings.

[JosyJosy]

I haven't dated one, but wouldn't be opposed to doing so.

[exitseven]

I used to be a fat kid. Not too many girls would pay any attention to me.

[SYTHOX]

Maybe it's not your weight that is the issue but your insecurity to your weight? Maybe a mindset shift is what you need

[Somoneelse]

I'm sure there are enough women who do like men who are "chubby."

[KittygosMeoWW]

Chubby/dad bod but still muscular in arms is ok but I prefer someone fit with a nice build.

[Anonymous]

Yes but the lard ass better have money/assets, have a kiss ass nice personality and be able to get a nickel out of a Coke bottle with his tongue.

[JayBones2469]

Only one I ever met. My chubby cousins wife. She's a bitch.

[Anonymous]

No, when I was in shape I had to bat them away
Now I'm not so nothing