Should I message her again if I haven't heard from her today? Or should I wait to see if she eventually replies?

[Anonymous]

Basically I started messaging this girl yesterday and things were going great. I asked her if she would like to exchange contact info and she said "yesss" so I asked her if she preferred texting my number or Snapchat or something and she hasn't replied. I was thinking of texting her good morning today or something, but I don't wanna come off as desperate. What should I do?

[Oliverlogan263]

My dude, I wouldn't message her again so soon if she hasn't replied yet. Even though things seemed to be going well, leaving it might be the play here. A few reasons:

- Double texting right away could maybe come off as too needy or clingy, like you're waiting by your phone or something. Chill vibes are always better.

- She may have just gotten busy yesterday and will hit you back soon. Give her a little breather.

- Alternatively, it's possible she lost interest for some reason. Better to hold off and see if she circles back on her own.

I'd say play it cool - focus on your own thing for a day or two. If you don't hear from her by the weekend, you could send a casual follow up then just to check in. But for now, let things marinate a bit. The less pressure the better, ya feel? One text is enough - ball's in her court. Trust me bro, patience is key in these situations!

[Anonymous]

Why didn’t u ask her number?

[Asker]

I didn't know if she had a preferred method besides using her number. Like what is she prefers Snapchat or Facebook or something? Should I text her something like "Hey how are you doing?"?

[Opinion Owner]

If u are chasing her u must ask wuss. Gro balls

[Anonymous]

Text her, but keep it brief.

[dudeinohio]

Message her again